what if your husband wants you to produced more than 10 kids?

Philippines
March 6, 2007 8:41am CST
in our counry birth control doesnt really matter, only few peolpe execise birth control planning, it depends on the famly ... my husband wants a big family he wants me to give birth every year? do you think i can do it? what should i do? should i agree? do you think if i dis agree, i would be a bad wife? he eally wants a big family...
3 responses
@mschiqui (1284)
• Philippines
7 Mar 07
Giving birth is a rare and special gift for us women. Not all of us women are giving the chance to give birth.. And we ahould be thankful to God with that.. Having a biggre number of children, we should think of it seriously.. Racing a children is not only giving them the basic needs to survive.. We should nurture and care our children and make them physically, emotionally, spiritually and mentally healthy..You should talk with your husband seriously and heartily cause i always believe that whatever issues you have in your family, everything wil be fine if the two of you should talk..Let him know what your views and what you feel of this plan of having a bigger family, and at the same time you shouldlisten to him why is he wanted to have a bigger family.. And the two of you should come up to a common decission. Telling your husband what you feel doesnt makes you a bad wife..In marriage the two of you should be open minded, understanding for both of your needs and feelings..God bless you and hopefully you could come up to a number of children that both of you agreed on it..
• Philippines
9 Mar 07
thats a very good advise.... add you.
• Singapore
6 Mar 07
If your physical condition is fine AND your family's financial health is good, go ahead! Do you like kids yourself? Can you envision a big family that will take care of you when you are old? I would say.. go ahead! - unless you have legitimate reasons for saying no.
• Philippines
9 Mar 07
thats a good point, thnx
• India
9 Mar 07
it doesnt matter how many children you have if you are really economically strong to bring up those 10 children. now bad or good wife certification doent relate to number of children in anyway. it all depends how strong you are to be able produce 10 children in a row. i think two kids is best in present days leaving aside to bother about population.