Please Answer Me!!!!! what should i do.

@istanto (8548)
Indonesia
October 16, 2006 4:43am CST
This is personal, I have a friend in the past 6 year, we dont meet each other and today she found me and emailed me. and asking me to be her boyfriend. what you guys think? should i leave my girlfriend?
21 responses
@shi_2000_21 (2680)
• India
26 Oct 06
Is she married, what is the urgency to call you after a gap of 6 years. You have to be very careful.
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@istanto (8548)
• Indonesia
26 Oct 06
she's not married yet.. i was wanted for 6 years to be her boy friend. but now i have gf and she ask me at the wrong time. i dont know how to answer her...
@ossie16d (11821)
• Australia
26 Oct 06
How long since you last saw this person or have you only been chatting on the internet? Think carefully about what you are going to do and her reasons for asking you to be her boyfriend.
@istanto (8548)
• Indonesia
26 Oct 06
hmm.. thanks
@vipul20044 (5793)
• India
26 Oct 06
Hey ishanto Just remember one thing noone can force you to love If you get into sentiments then, am sorry that relationship (New) wont last long Just think twice before you leave someone and at what cost Do you think she is worth it? Worth leaving someone
@istanto (8548)
• Indonesia
28 Oct 06
Thank you so much
@mauldinmama (1501)
• United States
28 Oct 06
Not enough info for me to give you a honest answer.
@istanto (8548)
• Indonesia
28 Oct 06
No problem thanks for reply anyway :)
@kueklb (96)
• United States
24 Nov 06
better becareful before make any decision. Don't love someone without understanding otherwise u will regret. Can give her a test either she is truly and trusty or just play a joke with you. If your gf is good enough why need to leave her? Think twice!
• Chile
24 Nov 06
Not at all!! Leaving your girlfriend? Maybe I would, if I was you, meet her or something like that, and THEN I would decide... anyway it is strange that she asked you that, no?
@justiman (428)
• United States
2 Nov 06
You will find trading is not the answer. Things should just fall into place for them to be right. Just let things happen naturally.
@j_thomas (957)
• India
2 Nov 06
IF YOU LIKE HER.GO AND BE HER GIRL FRIEND
@Theresam (1177)
• United States
12 Nov 06
Stay with your current girlfriend! It is strange to come out of the blue and ask you to be her girlfriend?
@ramalot (295)
• India
10 Nov 06
Hi istanto THere is nothing wrong in friendship.Real friends are real assets. Since you both know each other you can better judge whether to accept her as a friend or not.
@ramalot (295)
• India
10 Nov 06
Hi istanto THere is nothing wrong in friendship.Real friends are real assets. Since you both know each other you can better judge whether to accept her as a friend or not.
• Singapore
9 Nov 06
you've not met each other for the past 6 years and now she wants you to be her bf? through email? wow! you must be an attractive guy! anyway, if i'm you, i would probably forget about her and be with my current gf. btw, there's a big question mark on why she started asking after 6 years...Good Luck!
@kaidei (695)
• Malaysia
9 Nov 06
just make her 2nd girlfriend lor.hohohoho...
@kaidei (695)
• Malaysia
9 Nov 06
just make her 2nd girlfriend lor.hohohoho...
@lavkul (472)
• India
28 Oct 06
No question of going back to old one..
• United States
28 Oct 06
You didn't give a lot for me to weigh the choices on here, but if I were you, I would stay with the girlfriend you have now. If someone waited six years to even bother asking you, and then did it at a time when they knew you were committed, I wouldn't exactly call that thoughful. It doesn't sound like she is thinking of you or your feelings at all. I would ditch the friend that you don't meet...forget about her and love your girlfriend like there is no tomorrow. Of course I don't know any details of either of these relatiosnhips. What it all boils down to is going with your heart and doing what you know is right. Take care!
@vbembot (747)
• Philippines
26 Oct 06
why should you leave your girlfriend? just because she came back to you? she had her chance. Not unless you still love her more than your girlfriend now.
@Vulcanik (944)
• Netherlands
28 Oct 06
Just say no you have already a girlfriend!
• United States
28 Oct 06
Definatly follow your heart.
@kesfylstra (1868)
• United States
28 Oct 06
Stay with your girlfriend. This girl shouldn't have done that to you, it's not fair.