How to keep marrage communication open?

United States
March 6, 2007 11:34am CST
My husband works 4am till noon and i work 7am to 7pm. when i get home, he is sleeping. Any ideas to keep talking to that "lump in the bed"?
2 responses
• United States
6 Mar 07
You guys need to set aside some time to talk and do things together or else your marriage will slowly fall apart. Set up a night for date night or a time to just hang out. Depending on what time he wakes up at night you could catch a late movie once and awhile or a late dinner for you and breakfast for him
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• United States
6 Mar 07
we have invested in a dry errase board and placed it on the door. Sofar this has worked well for thing like getting mail sent and laundry done but just lacks personality. We have moved a bit to instant message for the more social interactions. The early breakfast isnt such a bad deal. would have to find a place open like steak and shake :P
@Fishish (696)
• India
6 Mar 07
tell him that u need to be together to be together. fix some time to talk. i think u should make an efort to get up for at least a few minutes when he has to leave. try to make a beginning, make him feel important adn see if he reciprocates. i think it should help. all the best!
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