Secrets
By TJHornibrook
@TJHornibrook (196)
United States
March 6, 2007 6:00pm CST
If you had a very big secret, one that if she/he knew right away before they got to know you would squash the relationship IE a crime, would you tell them right away or tell them that you have had a checkered past and you will tell them once they get to know you better over the phone.
3 responses
@playboy_82 (21)
• Canada
11 Mar 07
yup secrets........i gues we all gotta have one.....or a dozen lol i got a whopper of one to but like you said not about to spill the beans on here....but actually i believe in total honesty and if my gf was to ask me somthin about somthin i would give her the honest truth no matter what the outcome cause if they really loved you or really were your friend they wouldnt judge you based on a secret regardless of what it was.......even murder ...well i dunno bout murder i guess if ya ever confess somthin like that to someone you can expect to be behind bars
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@TJHornibrook (196)
• United States
11 Mar 07
very true. But if I have just met her hello, I know if I should tell her right away. She doesn't even know me yet. But I will have to think of this one.
@easy888 (10405)
• Australia
9 Mar 07
Everyone do have their past, but the past is not important, what we should concern is what happen now and the future.No matter you meet a new friend or start a relationship with someone, you should not hide soemthing right away ,it is better to tell them directly and honestly.
If they really want to make friends or start a relationship with you, they will forgvie what you do in the past
@TJHornibrook (196)
• United States
10 Mar 07
Thank you for your honest rwply. Gives me something to think on .
@iampabols (93)
• Philippines
7 Mar 07
i have a big secret but its not about crimes...its all about my personality which i can't tell anybody that knew me because it would somehow ruin my whole life totally.
@TJHornibrook (196)
• United States
7 Mar 07
I understand that I am a bit of a dr jekle and mister Hyde when I don't take my meds
