Abortion don't favour life...
By lap_andi
@lap_andi (76)
Indonesia
March 6, 2007 9:09pm CST
Have you ever had an abortion or are you thinking about it?many women have been faced with this situation and they have wonder what to do, as they have not been prepared for the situation.
on the next lines we are going to look at abortion, wich certainly is not one of the easiest subjects. we are going to concentrate on whether abortion is the right thing to do, what pints are used to justify it and how the child's development generally takes place. it is important to be clear about these, because our opinion of abortion depends a lot on how we think about these essues.
the next story well describes, what a difficult thing an unexpected pregnancy can be for many people, especially if they are not mentally prepared and been ready for it - it may feel like a heavy burden for them. the example also shows, how in spite of all the propaganda, many who have had an abortion later feel that they did the wrong thing. they may feel guilty of it, but can't undo it anymore
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5 responses
@tator_tot8073 (698)
• United States
8 Mar 07
I have never had an abortion, but I did think about it one time. I came to my senses, and decided to keep the child. Why punish the child for something that he or she didn't do...It's no their fault they were created. I was 16 at that time. I ended up losing her in my 5th month.
Today, being older and wiser, I would never consider abortion. I could never end the life that growing inside me. Children are too precious.
@wsue1023 (1395)
• United States
8 Mar 07
Excellent post. I'm glad that even though you lost your baby, you made the choice not to abort. Had you aborted you would live with thinking you had something to do with the babies demise. This way you know better and no doubt have some peace there.
I've never had an abortion but have friends who have. They all tell me the same thing... they wish they hadn't.
@suspendedindusk03 (319)
• United States
2 Apr 07
Having experienced a pregnancy loss (due to it being ectopic), I know I would never, ever choose to have an abortion. Even before my pregnancy loss I knew I would never be able to go through with an abortion, but I'm even more adamant now.
I believe adoption is a much better choice than abortion in most cases anyway. I mean, look at how many couples are out there who cannot have children themselves and would shower an adopted child with love and affection.
Not that I want to control the choices of other women, but this is just my opinion on the matter.
@GloomCookieLex (6073)
• United States
4 Apr 07
If there are so many infertile parents who "would shower an adopted child with love and affection", then why are there hundreds of thousand of orphans and foster children already stuck in the system with no home or family?
@GloomCookieLex (6073)
• United States
4 Apr 07
I have never had an abortion. However, I don't even want children, so if I ever became pregnant, then I would seek one without hesitation.
And no, adoption is not an option for me. My body is not a rental flat for uppity adoptive parents who will only adopt perfect little white infants. There are already hundreds of thousands of children that those poor infertile people can adopt.
@mshogrider67 (565)
• United States
7 Mar 07
I have never had an abortion, and never would of can't now since i had a hystorectmy 2 years ago, Abortion was just not something for me, but I do believe I should have the right to do as i please with my own body. As for making that decision each person needs to decide if it is right for them and if they will be able to live with the fact the rest of their lives.
@chengbeb (285)
• Philippines
4 Apr 07
Other people think that through abortion they will have a chance to further improve their life and yet other's think it's a sin. I have never thought or planned to have an abortion but I do have friends who went through the process. They though it would ease their burden but it just further alleviated their feeling of guilt. Abortion is just a way to show that you are not responsible enought to take care of yourself, of your life, of the innocent child inside of you.
