do girls really play with guys heart

India
March 7, 2007 3:45am CST
this is a general discussion to ask people's opinion whether they think that girls are simply playing this long lived love drama with innocent guys
2 responses
@wrdsofwisdm (1069)
• United States
9 Mar 07
Believe me when I say it goes both ways. I think it has a lot to do with insecurities from within. Some game players feel that if they can have some kind of power or spell over someone, they are special. It is sad really because life is too short for such games. Somethimes the hurt someone feels from someone playing games with them can taint their future love prospects because they are scarred and have a hard time letting it go and giving a new person a fair chance. We call this baggage.
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• United States
9 Mar 07
This is just a lonely man's opinion, so take it for what it's worth. In any type of relationship there must be a connection, this common bond is a needed reation in any type of romance, friendship, or affair of the heart if love is the amorous entanglement need and wanted by the pair, or couple. If it's real, the answer above would be no. However, to amuse oneself in participating and portray by rendering and pretending is a performance. Toying with someone's affections, playing the field, sleeping around, swing and just fooling around is professing to be in a perilousness instability of unsteadiness and unreliability. Through the motions of, masquerading, impersonating, and simulating, monkeying around, horse around, or screwing around, a vulnerability and nervousness of self consciousness creating fear, worry, anxiety, uneasiness are all created by uncertianty. While in reality, what a girl learns in todays communities is just that, uncertianty due to souls that are handsome fellows who have other purposes, intent, objectives, ambitions, ideas, plans, or aspirations. This manages with or without intention, to build up a wonderfully vivid and intriguing portait of Satan. Every reactions creates an opposite reaction, and depending what personality, and psychology make up each person casts with there mentality stamps, molds, attributes, traits that are distinctive and complex with no moral fibre and acceptability. This is why an individuals character is so important. It defines who we are, our personality, essential qualities, integrity, reputation, persona, and as a human being. Honestly, who really and truely gives life to human culture, customs, ACHIEVEMENTS, PEOPLE, COMMUNITIES, AND ATTAINMENTS to societys, nations, and people as a way of life. Women do, they hold the real power, without them there is nothing, does that mean its ok to amuse, by playing with a guys heart, no. It does happen, yes, snice the begining of time it has happened oneway or another. Can you blame a girl for the extra luggage, or belongings that she is carring in here trunk, indeed, and absolutely, that is easy. Is it right to do so, no. However, many men think, a blemish or smear is an imperfection, suggesting hurt, harm and damaged so who cares. Faithful and true Love by any women or guy who's heart is with any women or guy, is authentic and genuine, devoted and dedicated unwavering, truly veraciously without deviating and is completely against playing with the womens or guys heart. Until a womens or guys heart is this way, completely agaist playing with a women or guys heart, women (girls) and men (guys), will play with a women or guys heart and that new person will not be given a fair and square deal causing a pounding head that leaves a scar injury traumatized by the wound. Love is not entertainment, or a leisure activity that you just romp as a great pastime. It's not a contest, meeting, trick, hoax, master plan, or practising the oldest profession. It's not even a gamble, when people are unattracted to each other, have no desire, no wants, no lust, no yearning, no admire, no hots for, or a thing for.....then yes some will play with a women or guys heart for one reason or other, not all do but some will. God has a funny why of balancing nature on this planet. True Love will always find a way to balance unsure instability, even in pending crisis. That's how I weigh up, compare, evaluate, consider, assess, appraise, and estimate how to answer this question accurately. It really comes down to who wants most of the power, control, authority, strength, and muscles. Most men are not innocent guys, but then again, most women aren't innocent either.