Would you prefer your partner told you who he finds attractive?

Christina Aguilera  - Christina Aguilera dark hair
Australia
March 7, 2007 5:35am CST
I was having a discussion with a friend today. Her fiance never tells her who he finds attractive. Any time she comments on how attractive she thinks a girl is in front of him, he tells her that he thinks she looks good. One day she said that she thought Christina Aguilera "had a hot body", and he agreed. Now she's mad at him for saying so!On the other hand, my ex (we broke up, but are still best of friends) and I always had very open communication between us about this sort of thing. We were quite fine hearing that the other found someone attractive. And for us, it worked, because there was never any jealousy. Neither of us ever had reason to doubt the other, and had complete trust in each other. What would you prefer? Would you be OK with your partner telling you he or she found someone attractive? How would it affect your relationship?
1 response
7 Mar 07
it depends on HOW and WHAT was said. regardless, yes i wouldnt mind to some extent. YET, I dont like what stupid things girls or boys do today when they see something appealing 2 their senses.. One has to have an opinion about EVERYTHING, but the manner on how it is expressed matters to me the most.