has anyone ever had a miscarriage?
By islaneni
@islaneni (129)
Armed Forces Pacific
March 7, 2007 9:28am CST
i just recently miscarriage...actually healing right now...i just wanted to know does the pain ever heal? i know that they say it takes time & take it day by day...but can you tell it to my heart...explain why my body is in a freak out mode...it was preparing & taking care of my baby & now it has to undo it all...does it ever get any easier?
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@eden32 (3973)
• United States
7 Mar 07
Was this your first pregnancy? I had two miscarriages in one year. I am a parent of 3, and at the time wasn't even trying to conceive. Even though the pregnancies weren't "planned" I found the loss really hard to process. Each time I found out I was expecting, I thought well I guess the universe knows better than I that I am ready for another child- then it just ended. I'm now expecting again & it's very hard to temper my excitement because of course I am still worried that something could go wrong again.
You may never understand why this happened to you. But the grief you feel will change & get easier to process. Just let yourself go through whatever you need to.
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@islaneni (129)
• Armed Forces Pacific
7 Mar 07
thank you eden32...no this was my 4th pregnancy...i have 3 beautiful girls & a blessing to me...my pregnancy wasn't plan at all...it was more of a surprise since it has been 8yrs since my youngest...but it was a pregnancy that we dreamed about starting for awhile...so losing my baby was a hit to my heart...i cried & cried & when you think you cried your last tear...you cry so more...but thank you for sharing your loss with me...it helps to know...congratulations on your new arrival...i will keep you in prayers...
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@magikrose (5429)
• United States
7 Mar 07
My step-sister had a misscarrage a few years ago and it was hard on all of us. Time and faith does heal a broken heart. A couple years after she had the miscarriage she got pregnant again and now has 2 beautifull children. She even says they dont totally take her mind off the one she lost but they help.
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@chertsy (3798)
• United States
31 Mar 07
First I want to say, I'm very sorry for your loss. I miscarried in '00. It was a very hard time for me. I wasn't or did I want to get pregnant. That didn't stop the fact that my body was doing this. Not only I miscarried, but it didn't fully come to an end for almost 5 months. 9 months after I miscarried, I got pregnant again. She's 5 now and will be starting school for the first time in the fall.
It does get easier. Will you forget?, No. Will it make you stronger?, Yes. So take it one day at a time. Take it easy, don't over do yourself. If you get tired, lay down and rest, and eat healthy. Again, I'm very sorry for your loss.
