family

@sugarlen (138)
Philippines
March 7, 2007 1:19pm CST
there are times when you want your kids to know the true meaning of life. life struggles, difficulties are only a few to mention. many kids when they get married really want to be independent and separated from their parents. that's a very nice thing to do since when you get married you really have to live your parents and live as one family. but sometimes conscience dictates that you have to help your kids not because you want to keep them but for them to save for their future needs while you are still up and about and can still mend the needs of the family. raising a family is so difficult specially these days where times are really bad. it is nice for kids to be independent but sometimes it is really a waste of money and a lot of emotions to let them go, because you know very well that they will suffer and will spend more just to go back to you when they need you. Should you still let them go... despite knowing the fact that they will suffer later... and who else will help them after all...
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@m_audrey6788 (58472)
• Germany
9 Mar 07
I know how it feels, it's like when they were babies you're always afraid not to let them off your sight because you're afraid that they'll be hurt but if you will not let them learn they will not grow strong enough to face their trials that comes their way..I know that somehow they wanted to give you the best and think what makes you happy..maybe it's not that easy nowadays that's why you feels that way..Your the best mom ever... :)