How to build my network?

You can use mylot to build up your network, just because you cant post unsolicited referral links doesn't mean you cant post about the opportunities you have as long as you don't spam the board. If you write a quality post about the site you are looking for guides for, and then ask anyone interested to pm you for more information then its fine for you to do so, just don't post a million posts with the same thing, make one post with lots of information and then if people are interested they will pm you, that simple

I will still be wanting to get in on this when /i upgrade my connection! I have not forgotten.

I used mylot to get some of my referrals. But I believe at this time,ChaCha is not accepting new guides. I just got an e-mail today stating that they want to make sure that the guides that they already have are at the level they want them to be at before they accept new ones.