What is a "best frined"? Do you think you have best frineds!?

Romania
March 7, 2007 7:49pm CST
What is a best friend? How he must be? I really don`t belive I can have a best friend.. all my frieds disapoinded me! Once, when i belive i find a really great friend.. he stoled my mobil phone and run away! Now i have some friends.. but i don`t want to get more closer because i`m scared i will be disapoinded again! So.. my conclusion.. my dog is my best friend!
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@pilbara (1436)
• Australia
8 Mar 07
I think a best friend is someone you can talk to about anything, who you can trust implicitly and who doesn't judge you will always be there for you and you would do the same for them. That was a rotten thing to do. I can understand about not wanting people to be too close to you and I have also been disappointed many times in the past. However, I think it is important to weight up the good and bad and even allowing for disappointment most of my friendships have had much more good things about them than bad. My Husband is my best friend.
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• Romania
8 Mar 07
I agree with you. But how can i know who i can turst?
@pilbara (1436)
• Australia
8 Mar 07
Unfortunately at the start you can't. Trust is earned over time. But if we let that stop us, then I think our life is the worse for that.
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• Philippines
8 Mar 07
yes i do have a lot of best friends, ever since we started college, we are still together even up to now, for 7 long years, we are still friends coz we have a lot in common and we always help each other.
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@merkava (1225)
• Philippines
8 Mar 07
I don't have a best friend but I have a lot of very close friends. I'd much rather have tons of friends rather than be focused to one. When you have a best friend your expectations of them are a notch higher compared to others.
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