Relationship

it is only your life.so tell people to but out.

I would think that is annoying. Why do you have to have a girlfriend? What if the person you are supposed to be with hasn't come into your life yet? I would tell them that I am not going to look for a girlfriend. You are better off not looking because you have a better personality to single girls if you do not seem needy or desperate. Whenever I met any of the guys that I ended up dating, I wasn't "looking" for anyone. Those were the best relationships I had even though it was only 3 good ones after I left high school. You should be able to be without a girlfriend. You may want one eventually, but it will happen when you meet someone, and you don't have to go looking around. Tell them you don't have to have a girlfriend in order to be happy or enjoy your life.

I would basically tell them to mind their own business :-).

Hello Titaniumsoul, I would tell them, "All good things to those who wait." This is just a tad nicer than telling them to mind their own business. I'm sure they mean well, but people should really consider minding their own affairs. Good luck with this. I know how annoying it can be. Especially is they start making recommendations or trying to set up blind dates. Hopefully, your friends & family have better sense than that.

if im single i wouldnt want others neither my friends or family to force me find a girlfriend. i mean ill try to find her when im ready.

It would be annoying but I always tell them the right person hasn't come yet so they shouldn't rush me into it./

if you're of age, they're just concerned. i think they love you just that at times things may not go the way we all plan it or would love it to go. so in as much as you should not pick offence at them yet make them know you're able to handle it and when you're ready for it, you'll do it. dont get pushed!!!!!!!!!!

Fortunately my family and friends have never and would never do this. Relationships should only be entered into when you are ready, and when you find someone whom you wish to be with, not because you don't feel like being single or because it is expected of you. I'd be annoyed and tell them to back off and focus on their own lives and personal affairs.