I don't get responses in MyLot!!!! WHY????????

i am new to mylot. i have responsed to a few and also started one of my own.but my responses were bad.and i ask them to be my friend and they said no,how rude.iknow how you feel.lonely in oklahoma.

Hi. Don't let down yourself and be patient please. I do have sometimes same problem but see still been posting over here. Just try hard to come up with appealing topics and also make firends who are helpful in this way. Not to say them for responsding but just do respond to their discussions. Though I also face the same problem but I am satisfied what I have in return. Happy posting myLot.

Well hun I looked at your questions and alot of them only call for one word answers..which you should post..and no one wil answer them because no one will get paid for answering them..and others I just didnt have anything to say becasue i live in another country..but dont give up..it just takes time..and you will get the knack soon..just remeber not to post anything that requires a one word answer..and avoid the do you liek thiws or that questions:)

Hi, welcome to mylot.com - the best discussion forum on the internet. Know why I termed it the best? Because you and I are the one to make it so. Sometimes, our discussions received little responses not because people do not like us. Not unless you are posting something negative, inciteful, hatred, extremism, etc. It could be that what you posted was not on their points of interests. I have many discussions that have little responses and even some without any at all. It does not deter me from carrying on posting new ones. We only get better and better each time. This is part of our learning curve in mylot.com

A lot of times I dont get a lot of responses either. It seems like it is just a matter of what topic you post and if people have a lot to say about it or not. Also it seems to kind of vary on your tags, if those are things people search for. Also the interest you post it under. I have noticed that if I post it under general discussion that it gets less responses than if it is posted under say "mylot". Time of day seems to matter too. If there are a lot of people on, everytime someone answers your thread, it moves back up and is likely to be spotted again. Also adding friends might help. I always check my friends discussions first to see if they have anything I want to respond to. And sometimes time is limited, so I only get to a few, which means that I dont even make it to the others, or new discussions. I hope you start to see more posts as you have been here longer. :)

its not just you, it happens to everyone, you have to ask a really good question that will attract people to the discussion and give good quality responses from their heart.