Why girls dont like possessive nature

i just love my boyfroiend for bieng possessive. i take it as a compliment for how much he loves me and cares for me. as far as independence is concerned, i guess it is totally different from being possessive. he is possessive but he always wants me to do watever i want in life. he has given me enough of space for being myself. so for me i like him so much for being possessive. please be there like that all through my life. god please somebody go tell him, i love him so much

What girls want is to be treated with respect, and to be independent. We are with our boyfriends because we love them, not because we are dependant on them. We want our freedom, and to be part of the relationship. By giving us our freedom you don't need to worry about us cheating. If men and women cheat, they are not interested ina relationship. my boyfriend and I have time together, but we also have time to do our own things, and be individuals. neither one of us tries to control the other. The relationship would not work if we tried to do that.