Possesivenss? What.... Do you think being possesive can harm your relationship

before, i used to be like that (possesive), but i notice that it will not do good for a relationship. suddenly you will broke up for that matter.. so you better change as early as possible.

true. it could harm yet it could also be the reason of your breakup. it's just like trapping your partner in a cage or like putting a leash into her/his neck. if she/he gets fed up, that would be the end of your love story.

Women hate men who are posessive. Women are not posessions. No human being can posess another. Your partner needs her own room to breathe, and she needs control over her life, just as you need control over yours. Don't try so hard to control her every move. She is a living soul who can not and should not be controlled.

In most of the relations possesiveness is quite common but it is also the root cause of the break - ups of most of them. Theres no harm in being possesive but it should be in a limit, whenever the line is crossed it may be difficult for the opposite person to survive in that relation.