do you call your parents by their first name or mother and father??
By liranlgo
@liranlgo (5752)
Israel
11 responses
@rogen_andrei (638)
• Philippines
9 Mar 07
I love and respect my parents too much that I just couldn't afford to call them by their first names. I even call the elderly folks in the neighborhood as "ate" (used to address to your elder sister) or "kuya" (used to address to your elder brother) though I know we aren't biologically related. I should say, my parents just brought me up with these lovely values and I wanted my future kids to have them as well.
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@Rexy_leigh (1189)
• Philippines
8 Mar 07
Never did I and never will I try calling my parents by their first names. I love my parents and regard them with high respect and for me calling them by their first names is simply disrespectful. I wouldn't want my future kids to call me by my first name either. I guess hearing their children call them "mom" or "dad" in a sweet, lovely voice is the sweetest thing they'd love hearing over and over again.
@wolfie34 (26771)
• United Kingdom
8 Mar 07
I never call my mum or dad by their first name, it doesn't sound right nor is it appropriate. It's far too informal and we are a very close family so I will always refer to them as mum and dad. I would feel very uncomfortable calling them by their names, I suppose it's what you get used to and also the culture you were brought up in.
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@lordwarwizard (35747)
• Singapore
8 Mar 07
We are not that liberal in Singapore. So... we don't call parents by their first names - and we wouldn't want our children to call us by our first names either.
So it would be the many different expressions of daddy and mummy dear. ;-)
@Chilly80 (40)
• Slovenia
8 Mar 07
I always call my parents mom and dad, I call them by their first name only as a joke sometimes. It's the same with all my friends, they all call them mom and dad.Except one girl, she calls her stepdad by his first name, but that's totally different.
@ESKARENA1 (18261)
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8 Mar 07
In their living years, i only ever refered to my parents as Mum and Dad, anything else would be a sign of disrespect and something i could never have done
blessed be
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@samwilliams06 (946)
• United States
8 Mar 07
I have never called my parents by their first name. I didnt know my mother name until i was about 11 years old. to me it was like saying a curse word and disrespectful.
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@trinidadvelasco (11401)
• Philippines
8 Mar 07
I've always called my parents mother and father or mama and papa. For them, it will be grossly disrespectful for a child to call his parents by their first names. Now, my kids call me mom or mommy or mama. Whatever they please. Never will I have them call me by my firstname nor nickname, I have enough people around who call me that way and the 3 of them are all I have to address me dearly as 'mom'.
@infinity52 (296)
• Sri Lanka
8 Mar 07
No i have never called my parents with their first name, i guess it is part of our culture to call them with respect, and we have been brought up calling them mother n father