Is it possible for boy & girl to be best friend without loving each other?

Indonesia
March 8, 2007 8:58am CST
So, tell me. If you had a best friend whom are different in gender, you didn't love her as a boyfriend/girlfriend?
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5 responses
8 Mar 07
Definitely. I've always found males more easy to be friends with than females for some reason. I've had a bloke be a best friend for nearly 10 years now and I've never been attracted to him. He's like my brother and my partner likes him and isn't threatened by our closeness.
• Indonesia
10 Mar 07
Does he have a girl friend? If have, are you sure you're not jealous to her?
10 Mar 07
I've set him up with girls before! No I wouldn't be jealous. I don't find him attractive in the least.
• Indonesia
12 Mar 07
Oh well, that means no problem with your heart. I'm happy for you.
• Pakistan
13 Mar 07
Yes such friendships goes better than love affairs. I have many friends (opposite gender)but we are just friends and very good friends without any love relationships.
• Indonesia
13 Mar 07
How lovely. Friendships never die.....
@justreal (2364)
• Canada
8 Mar 07
Of course it's possible. I have a girl as a friend it's been a while. But most girl and bot friendships tend to build feelings between each other. Sometimes it's just hard for some people to maintain only a friendships between boy and girl.
• Indonesia
10 Mar 07
Yes....chemically boys and girls are different...
@Gwapako_28 (2140)
• Philippines
10 Mar 07
yes its possible.i have a lot of friends who are opposite to my gender.and its all plain friendship.
• Indonesia
10 Mar 07
Friend is always be friend....
@kylanie (1205)
• United States
8 Mar 07
in high school everybody would have considered me to be a tomboy because I hung out with most guys I had this really good friend and he was like a brother to me and then I had this guy that I went out with for a little while but we realized we was meant to be friends and that was cool also
• Indonesia
10 Mar 07
So, don't you sexually attracted to those guys?