is it ok?

My question would be "how long have you been together"? Before entering into something like this, the key thing is to have a good strong foundation to fall back on whether it is a good experience or a bad experience. You won't know which way its going to go until it happens. Its not to say you aren't happy, but its something that only time and a good 3-4 years provide. I've known several newlyweds who have been able to jump in and be successful in the lifestyle, but my experience has shown nothing is as good as just a really good foundation for starters!