Lifetime Partnership! Anyone?
By juanthedj
@juanthedj (64)
Philippines
March 8, 2007 7:29pm CST
With the fast growing number of divorce and family break-ups. Can anybody tell me the secret for a long lasting married life? How do you keep the fire from burning, Ladies nad Gens?
4 responses
@nrnotrare (631)
• United States
9 Mar 07
Hello juanthedj.......
My wife and I just celebrated our 28th anniversary and I can tell you that is very important to treat each other with respect. Never belittle, berate, use or even imply force of any kind.
Life is much better when both parties want to be there, to help and support each other.
Above all remember to find a way to make each other laugh as much as possible every day.
Tom
@nrnotrare (631)
• United States
10 Mar 07
Hello juanthedj....
Having a child will certainly change your life.......
....the day you find out that your wife will have a baby...
....the day that child is born...
....the day you first hear a little one say "daddy"...
....a child will certainly change your life....
Tom
@juanthedj (64)
• Philippines
10 Mar 07
now, thats something to look forward to!
thanks again tom! by the way, im a newbie here. can we be friends? i still don't know how to invite. could you?
@juanthedj (64)
• Philippines
9 Mar 07
wow! thanks for the advice tom! i am a newly wed! just got married last year. and i've been thinking about our future, maybe when we will have kids, it will help strengthen our relationship!
@BourderHouse (749)
• Philippines
9 Mar 07
I am happily married for 12 years and no one argument happen to me and to my partner.
@ironstruck (2298)
• Canada
9 Mar 07
Living together for a lifetime is not necessarily a good thing.
Some people stay together because it is against their religion to get divorced.
Some have nowhere else to go and nothing better to go to, so they stay together.
It is terrible if you are unhappy with your marriage, but stay together for all the wrong reasons.
@juanthedj (64)
• Philippines
9 Mar 07
Why, can't the couple do anything to work it out together? I mean, we all know that married life has its ups and downs, and its all natural.
Anyhow, i respect your opinion. Peace!