Fat girls

I put on weight after we were married because I stopped doing all the sports and exercising that I use to do prior to being married. I was also content and happy in our marriage and didn't feel that I had to "look" good anymore. I was beautiful in my husbands eyes and thats all that mattered. When I had my son a year later, I put on even more weight and have struggled to lose it ever since. Now I am determined to lose this extra 50 pounds because I have had problems with my lower back for quite sometime and I feel that this is the right time for me to start working on it, now that I am home full-time.

Ha Ha Ha... Good Question!! When I asked this question, my girlfriend replied that girls become fat after marriage beacuse of the happiness and the love they get from their Husband! Logically speaking, the main reason for this I think is the copulation process! It widens the lower part of the body and accordingly, fat deposition starts. The other reasons include those discussed by other users. So to keep oneself in shape even after marriage, one houl continuously keep exercising!

It must be because, most women are no longer as concious of how they appear after marriage compared to those days they led singly. Others gain weight because, they can no longer find time for exercising and taking other activities which they used to, after all the kids have come. There are some who have become fat because, it is the work of nature. Once we are in our 40's, our metabolism drops and it will have to take a lot of effort to keep the weight down. Women must take care of themselves after marriage. We must consider that the man we married will desire us to stay the way we looked while we were still dating them.

One reason is that their husbands want to eat fattening meals and they turn fat, too. If both members of a couple are overweight, they need to face the problem together and decide to get rid of the junk food that is causing them to gain weight, and maybe even do an exercise program together. It seems to me that men put down their wives for gaining weight, but women very seldom say anything about their husband's weight gain. Looks like a double standard to me. Guess what, they say that fat women are more desirable to men in some countries. I guess it is just what your culture teaches you, and in the United States, culture is demanding a very unhealthy thinness.

I am married and I didn't "get fat"! I weight 5 pounds more than when I got married...and let me tell you my husband had gainged ALOT more!! My weight and looking good is really important to me so just because I am married doesn't mean I want to look "chunky" or stop exercising/taking care of myself, whatever!

Maybe they are not after their beauty because they are already marriage.

Mostly due to heredity. However, having a husband who constantly tell s them to finish their plate like they werechildren doesn't help either. Neither does not having thefreedom to go out and get good exercise, most women in most cultures are not allowed to go out alone once they are married, since their husbands are too stupid to realize that they won't be looking for another man.