mylot discussions
By 3r7sweetie
@3r7sweetie (937)
Philippines
March 8, 2007 9:17pm CST
I noticed lately that most people are talking and complaining about the rudeness of some people in mylot. I couldn't help feeling worried myself because I know I have posted some contradicting replies which may have angered or insulted somebody. But all those replies were not meant to insult others. I posted those replies as my honest opinions on some matters. I wonder if other people find my responses abusive or insulting just because it contradicts their views. And I wonder if those other people who were subject of complaints did mean to insult the poster of a discussion or just meant to answer with their honest opinions, too. We are here to help each other be enlightened on some matters. But why would we rate someone a negative if we do not like their opinions or if their opinions contradict ours? or if we disagree to what they say? Wouldn't it be better if we'd all be open to both sides of opinions? After all, we are here to post our opinions on certain things, honestly on our side of the matter, and not to please the poster with positive answers he wants to hear. With the knowledge that anytime someone can give us a negative rate on an unacceptable opinion, we are being hindered to really express our thoughts and debate on a certain issue. Wouldn't it be good to hear opinions on both sides and not take it as an insult at all but a friendly debate? What do you all think?
2 people like this
2 responses
@Karmalina (647)
• Australia
9 Mar 07
Don't worry. Even if someone writes something that burns me up I appreciate the fact that they tried. There ARE rude people here. Those are the ones who write 1 mean line, don't explain why they think that and never really contribute anything but an unkind word. If people didn't express true opinions this place would be just a bunch of nodding and smiling and not worth a crap. Keep speaking your true opinion.
@3r7sweetie (937)
• Philippines
9 Mar 07
Thanks for the encouragement. Maybe I was just overeacting to worry so much about this.
@Augustta (1850)
• Poland
16 Apr 07
Sweety,listen.You will never succeed to make happy all people...There will be all time some people which will agree with you and will send you a lot "thanks" but also you will make without your intention someone sad...
In a community so big like mylot is imposible to make all smile or understand you.So,my advice do what you feel to do,be honest and don't answer nice just because few people here will get upset...
Augusta