My honey was already engaged!!!

well if i found out my boyfriend was engaged i wouldnt be very happy to know he already has somebody else in his life including me. i probably would cry if he did ever tell me he was. i hope your getting on great with your life and your new partner. take care cherriemae x

I am glad you were able to move on. If my partner was already engaged when we met, I'd search for his fiance and warn her what a lying cheating man she's about to marry. I wouldn't want another woman to fall into the same trap.

oh i know the story. still again that stupid cheater ex of yours. well personally i will cry because its very painful. When you love someone so deep and then he just leave you oh thats very painful. well anyway the important thing is you already fully recovered from that sad part of your life. Now its your time to be happy and im very glad to know that your with someone who is very deserving with your love. Best wishes. I miss you girl.

Something similar happened to my daughter....twice! First boy/f, father of her son, was supposedly broken up with former g/f, but my daughter and former g/f have a baby in the same month! Unfortunately, the other baby is perfect while my g'son has developmental disabilities. Years later, my daughter is again pregnant. Boyfriend (different bloke) is rapidly losing interest. My g'daughter is born and Dad is nowhere but his sister is being kind. She eventually tells my daughter that her brother also has a son born two days before his daughter is born. He became engaged to the mother of his son. Then my daughter lost the friendship of the sister so she is alone. Men can be disgusting and some should have their private parts removed. Mind you, my daughter will always find the rotten one.

I'm sorry you went through such a hard time with your ex. He sounds like a real fool. I am glad you got past it though, and that yu found someone who loves you. I actually started dating a guy when I was 18. I thought things were fine. 2 months into the relationship he asked me to marry him .... something told me to say no, but I said yes. 2 months after that we split, and a week later, I had a phone call from the girl he was already married to, telling me to stay away from her husband. It had never occured to me to think why he didn't want to take me back to his place. Of course it all became clear when I received that phone call. I never saw him again.

well, i'm sorry to hear that situation and i'm glad that u took an good step by getting marred whith some one else and getting setteled in life and done your present husband know about the incident and what about the kid did u abort or u gave birth to that 3months kid.. suraj

hmmm... i know that kind of suffering too well but i guess, yours is much painful because of the baby. Anyway, it was the most tormenting experience. I've spend too many sleepless nights, buckets of tears were poured out on mu pillow. It's really terrible that your honey whom you thought is the nicest guy on earth, and you dreamed that one day you'll end up to forever... and all of the sudden he's engage! not to you but with someone else!!! Good thing i am not pregnant like you. And thank God we both come out in out dilimma and are happy now with someone far more worthy than the other one who left us hanging on the air. It was just a blessing in disguise for God has better plans and best partners for us.

hmmm... i know that kind of suffering too well but i guess, yours is much painful because of the baby. Anyway, it was the most tormenting experience. I've spend too many sleepless nights, buckets of tears were poured out on mu pillow. It's really terrible that your honey whom you thought is the nicest guy on earth, and you dreamed that one day you'll end up to forever... and all of the sudden he's engage! not to you but with someone else!!! Good thing i am not pregnant like you. And thank God we both come out in out dilimma and are happy now with someone far more worthy than the other one who left us hanging on the air. It was just a blessing in disguise for God has better plans and best partners for us.

I experienced the same thing you did. It hurt so much. I felt betrayed and played upon. My boyfriend also texted me that he was already engaged to another girl. Worse, he called me one morning and made me talk to the girl! How inconsiderate. Anyway, accepting the fact that he was not meant for me helped to ease the pain I felt during that time. Lucky for you that you finally found a man who truly loves you. Maybe you and your ex were really not meant for each other. Perhaps those hurting moment happened because God has prepared someone for you - someone who is better and who is more deserving of your love than the guy who left you.

im so sorry cherriemae. i would cry and dont know what more but i definately would be angry too. did you tell him about your baby? i wish you luck and a good life with your new partner and please take care of you and your baby

I'm so sorry this happened to you. I am glad that you have gotten over it and that you have someone new to love. Would I cry if this happened to me? Yes of course. I think anyone would be devistated by this. Why is it usually the men that have more than one family? You almost never hear of women with more than one family in different towns. I think men who do this are so self centered they don't even think how it might affect the other person.

Im sorry for you, but it's just natural to cry. I dont know what i will call you if you do not cry. it's also a way of releasing your disappointments

Aww... I am very sorry to hear about your situation. Have you told him about your baby? Do try to work out something... or do you intend to be an "unwed mother"? It's tough and a big commitment. Please consider carefully. :/

of course! i'll be heartbroken if i were you! it's sad that he left you pregnant for someone else and is already engaged. if he knows that you're pregnant with him, he may have not left you for another woman. if he doesn't know now, let him know that you're having a baby and he's the father. he should be responsible the child once you give birth in 6months. if you dont want him to know, then it's really up to you... your choice:) it's good that you have moved on and found someone new who accepts who and what you are... be happy always.. wish you the best of luck!:)

My ex was in love with a guy while still being with me at the end. Her sister told me he gaver a ring I said she is his problem now. At the time it did hrt a little bit but now I can truely say that and mean it. I didn't cry but it did hurt at the time. Now she is married and I feel sorry for him.

Well first off, that man is really stupid.. I mean he got you pregnant and left only to say, i've fallen in love with someone else... I'd be pretty angry yet sad... Anyways, as long as you have someone who loves you and that will never go away from you, that is all that matters...

I don't know whether I would cry, scream, throw things, or all of the above. For people to do such cruel things like that to others, is just beyond me. And how sad and insensitive for him to take the wimpy way out and tell you via text! But at least now you have someone good in your life. For me, that would be the best cure for the pain.

i would feel terible, but then come to think of it, he nevr deserved u. he was one mean sick person who was putting up his best in front of u. think of him as history. u have a good boy with u now and thats why god wanted to rid u of this previous fellow. i would feel terrible in your place adn i would not be able to trust any one again..

If you think that he gave you misery think again.He could have left you in the future in your even worst time if he did this.At least you got some one in your life.Relationships are always meant to be committed.You should be pleased instead that you got your pain initailly.By the way its reaaly very hard to accept that whom you loved most,gives you pain and sorrow.But love never asks for return,doesn't it?

I haven't been in exactly your situation, but a similar one. I dated a guy for about three years. We lived about 30 minutes from each other and he was just over the state line. He had told me he was going thru a divorce. For three years, I never knew that he was still married with no intention on getting divorced. Then, one day, I get a call from his wife. She understood, apparently he had done this before and was more careful about it this time. I was too angry to cry. To top it off, he had the nerve to call me the next day and ask if I wanted to see the divorce papers. Well, they still haven't come in. I was just really angry. I didn't cry about it, maybe I just didn't care about him as much as I thought I had originally.