Cheating and myself?

Im married and what stops me is the devastation I would cause my husband, my kids and my family. Cheating is something you cant reverse. If you get caught it is devastating. The effects of cheating are horrible. Your better half will have self esteem problems for the rest of her/his life. Trust issues will always be there if you decide to save the marriage. If you are a person of faith think about what the bible says about temptation, "Resist the devil, and he will flee from you." You can use that word devil, as temptation because it really is not a godly thing to do. I hope you realize that for one moment of pleasure you can loose so much. If you dont love your significant other to not cheat on them, then get divorce and go at it. At least you wont have the guilt that goes with it.

im not married but i wont be happy if the person i love and i think who loves me is gonna cheat on me.. first off... if you really really love as in really love your wife/husband to the 100000000000th power... no matter how sexy that other temptation is... the flags wont stand. the mind controls it so control your mind... focus... breathe in and out and get out... that's if you really want to get out of it.... second... now if not and you want to try a different dish (what??food?) then go on with it... as long as you dont commit to that person, you dont spend time (except for those bedtime stories you share with them) with them.. you dont spend too much on them... i think that is okay.. on your part... but then again, how would your partner feel if she/he learns about it... then again.. will they know about it... but what if they do?? so that's what you need to think about if temptation is 1cm or 1mm away from your face... you dont want to hurt your better half do you??