abortion
By nonnie88
@nonnie88 (4)
July 11, 2006 3:17am CST
how can i terminate a 4 week pregnancy at home without anyone knowing. Please help. i feel like killing myself - i'd rather die than have this baby.
8 responses
@missLC123 (88)
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11 Jul 06
i know that a lot of people are answering this topic... and it is a very good one! but no one has yet to mention what you are going to feel like after you have this abortion...!! i recently was in a class involving this topic! we heard women tell their stories about their abortions and how they felt afterwards. every woman said that they were hurt in three ways.. emotionally, spirtitually, and physically. My advise from hearing the women tell their stories and hearing their sorrowful regrets.. is don't go through it! have the baby.. and if you do not want to keep it.. put it up for adoption! A mother who can not have a baby due to health problems or anything else that is keeping them from having a baby would much rather adopt a beautiful healthy child from someone else then knowing that babies are being MURDERED!! sooo PLEASE! have the baby..... and put it up for adoption! SAVE the human LIFE!!
@mutigers12 (307)
• United States
11 Jul 06
You might not think so right now, but that baby is a precious human being and it will be in turn the best thing that will ever happen to you. Will you be a single mother? I know from my own experience that it is hard to be a single mother but then again you receive the joys that no one else will ever know. Nothing in life is ever perfect or goes the way we want it to and everyone has struggles everyday. If you don't want to keep the baby, you could get signed up for foster parents for the baby and they could help pay for the medical aspects of the pregnancy and help you through all this so you won't have to go through it all alone. Good Luck and God Bless!
@mashama (13)
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11 Jul 06
Self-induced abortion is significantly dangerous to your health and life.
I would recommend going to a proper institution and talking with them also.
You still have time (about 8 weeks) to think about it until you can abort safely in an appropriate environment.
I truely hope you will get through this...
@classicaljazz (1628)
• United States
11 Jul 06
Nonnie, I am reading all these posts and I noticed you haven't responded in awhile. How are you feeling? I am concerned. Please answer.
@MINNIEMEE (68)
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11 Jul 06
No one can give u the right decion only u can make your own discissions in life that u feel are right......; listen to your inner self even though now you think the world is against u, its not that bad, its only because u are in a situation where u need support and help.... there MUST be at least one person who will see u through the final decission and dont forget we are here to help..... its easy for me to say but try not too worry and look on the positive side to any of your problems things only get better in the end. yours minniemeeee