My 7 year old has an MRI Scan on Monday

@rainbow (6761)
March 9, 2007 10:21am CST
Hi everyone, as you know Bong's had headaches for almost a year now, we hope it's a stress reaction due to his special needs. On Monday we have to be at the hospital (over an hours drive away) by 8am. He is not allowed a drink after 5am and nothing to eat after midnight like a gremlin. He has to have a general anaesthetic so he sleeps through the scan and then it's 2/3 weeks wait for the results, which I'm sure will be fine. Can you please wish him the best and send him positive vibes on Monday as it's going to be a big day for him?
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@cjsmom (1423)
• United States
9 Mar 07
Heavenly Father, we come to you on behalf of one of your precious children, Bong. You know what he has been going through for such a long time. As they do the scan on Monday, we know that you're protective arms will be around him and the results will be negative. Also, we thank you right now for your healing powers and know that he will be completely fine in no time. We thank You and Praise You, in Jesus' name, Amen.
@rainbow (6761)
10 Mar 07
Thank you so much for that beautiful prayer, made me go all goosey. I'm sure he'll be fine and with all our love reaching around the world to him the 3 weeks until the results will fly.
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@cjsmom (1423)
• United States
11 Mar 07
You're most welcome...
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@Willowlady (10658)
• United States
9 Mar 07
Best wishes for the young one. Too young to have these trials, yet old enough to give you lessons on grace and mercy I am sure. All my positive energies will be sent across the pond for good results. Thanks for informing us so we could be donators of good things in spirit.
@rainbow (6761)
10 Mar 07
Thanks so much sweetie, he teaches me something new every day, I'm sure he'll be ok but it's gonna be a big day and he will need to keep calm which is not always easy. Thanks you in advance for sending him such wonderful positive light.
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@gabs8513 (48686)
• United Kingdom
9 Mar 07
Sweety you know that I will be thinking of you both and that my Heart and Hopes will be with you I just hope that everything goes well and fast. Love and big Hugs to you xxxx
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@rainbow (6761)
10 Mar 07
Thanks honey, he'll be fine it's just a big day and he's gonna need all those positive vibes.
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@mimpi1911 (25464)
• India
10 Mar 07
my best wishes are with you all. don't worry things will be okay. i know the anaethesiae part is scary but, trust me, it's just an implement to carry the test smoothly as you know children are edgy and fidgety. we had similar fear when my 3 yr old neice anouska had to be tranquilised and anaesthesized for tooth treatment. that was scary indeed! Boo and bong are darlings and you are blessed. my heart goes with them. smiles........ ..oh i forgot, why do you have to await 2-3 weeks for the report??
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@rainbow (6761)
10 Mar 07
Thanks mimpi, it is a worry, not because of the process so much as his reaction, it's only gas and air and magic cream to numb the back of his hand in case they need to put some dye in, but I am concerned he may panic, I'm trying to keep it low key for him. I'm sure that thought of new PJ's and a day off school will perk him up. The report has to be looked at by the consultant and a panel or something and then their reports have to be sent to our pead who will decide what to do about the results and contact our GP who will then get in touch with me.
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@webeishere (36313)
• United States
9 Mar 07
I'll be out of town on Monday but my heart & soul with many prayers will be going your way. Good luck & God Bless your family. HAPPY POSTINGS FROM GRANDPA BOB !!
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@rainbow (6761)
10 Mar 07
Thanks Grandpa Bob, it means so much that my friends are sending him love and hope from all over the world. I'm sure he'll be fine especailly with so much support.
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@taramoon (740)
• Spain
9 Mar 07
Evening Rainbow hun, am away on holiday at the moment but i've bought my laptop away so i would not miss any important messages like yours, i will be thinking about all of you on Monday am i do know exactlty what you are going through because i had this 3 years ago will my little boy the waiting period for the results is the worst and feels like enternity, i hope that all goes well and please when you can please leave us a message just to say that Bong 's fine and that he is back home after the scan. And then obvsersaly keep us posted on results, don't go getting yourself into a state cause it will show on your face, i know is easier to say than to do, but our little prescious ones can read every expression on our faces, big big hugs and special kisses to you all. lots of love from me to you xx
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@rainbow (6761)
10 Mar 07
tara, sweety what a beautiful message, I'm so sorry you had to go through this too. I'm going to get him new PJ's and toothbrush etc tonight and try to talk to him about Monday a little bit, don't want him to get scared. Hopefully I should get him home Monday teatime when he's eaten and had a wee I hope you have a fantastic holiday, and when I'll let you know how it went on Tuesday as I really should be home by then.
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@rainbow (6761)
11 Mar 07
I got shrek battery operated toothbrushes for them both too, they both have 2 new lots of PJ's and cool toothbrushes, he knows es going but luckily not making a fuss yet, he's goen to grandmas for sunday lunch so I get a chance to pack his bits and bobs ready, early night tonight tho - it's gonna be a long day - thank you so much for that brilliant idea and your support!
@taramoon (740)
• Spain
10 Mar 07
Ahh bless you tell him that they are magical PJams and they will help him to feel better, good luck sweets try and get some rest and please keep me posted. Enjoy the rest of your weekend xx
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@joshdale08 (2320)
• Philippines
11 Mar 07
so, this is what you meant in your other post about wanting a baby girl. i'm so sorry. but i've always believed that you are not given anything that you can't handle. trust God to have reasons for his ways. i do admire your strength. i'm a weakling where my kids are concerned so i can't imagine myself in your shoes. don't lose faith, you have an angel with you.
@rainbow (6761)
11 Mar 07
You always make me feel better, Bong has Autism and ADHD, they are sending him to the physio soon to see how dyspraxic he is too. Some days he can be hard work but he's a sweet little chap really. It makes it harder when I think of the responsiblility which is why I know I have to deal with my feelings and get on with things but is a little happiness to much to ask? I'm sure he will be fine and promise to let you know his results! Thank you for sending me one of your angels to watch over him!
• Philippines
11 Mar 07
i've always had a soft spot for children and i sincerely hope everything will work out not only for your son but also for you and your family.
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@rainbow (6761)
11 Mar 07
thank you so much for your kind words, I hope all your family is fine and never have to do anything like this. Bong will be ok, it's like little lines of love coming from all over the world with the kind thoughts making a safe place so he'll be ok. hugs to you all!
@minnie_98214 (10557)
• United States
19 Mar 07
My thought are with you. Ive been there with my 5 year old its not easy. If you have any questions feel free to ask. The worst part is waiting for the results. If they give em too you dont freak till you get a doctors details. They will find something almost everytime and unless you know what it means it could be nothing. They found blood in my sons brain and i freaked only to find out it was no big deal.
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@rainbow (6761)
19 Mar 07
I'm so sorry you had to go through this, I hope your little angel is ok now! Thank-you for warning me about the results I will try not to panic unless I have to. I'm sort of blocking it at the moment, he's not poorly as far as I can tell so I'm working on the hope that it will prove his headaches are stress.
@sylviekitty (2083)
• United States
11 Mar 07
I really hope all will be well for him, and that it's nothing serious. I will keep all of you in my thoughts. :)
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@rainbow (6761)
13 Mar 07
Thank you so much for your kind thoughts! I'm sure it will be fine but we won't know straight away so I will let you know as soon as I do.
11 Mar 07
Thinking of you! - message to say i am thinking of you
I will be thinking of him and you too. He will be fine and a great relief to you if it can explain the reason for his headaches. Good luck on Monday!!
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@rainbow (6761)
13 Mar 07
Thanks honey, I'm sure he will be fine too, if they can only find a way to stop the headaches, I just hope this scan is clear!
@hopeful28 (1439)
• Singapore
12 Mar 07
I will surely remember Bong in prayer and thoughts, rainbow. He must have had a hard time with those headaches. Would be good to ease your mind to have a scan done to make sure that all is okay. Please take care of yourself too. Much love to you and Bong. Let us know the results when they are out won't you?
@rainbow (6761)
13 Mar 07
Thanks sweetie, Bong will be fine, there's so much love surrounding him surely those results have to be clear. I'll let you know as soon as I have any results.
@mobyfriend (1017)
• Netherlands
14 Mar 07
Bong I wish you all the best on monday. You will get los of cuddles from your mummy on that day. Rainbow take care I hope the results will be good and that the headaches are nothing more than stress. I know it's not unusual for children with special needs to have severe headaches but it's better to be safe than sorry. I'm sending positive vibes to you and your family.
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@rainbow (6761)
14 Mar 07
Thank-you so much moby, he was a star, no fuss at all even once, he was even quite proud of the circles on his chest where the monitors were attached, although he never saw them. I will let everyone know that he is fine (hopefully) in 2/3 weeks when I get his results, then we just have to find a way to deal with his stress, which has to easier than the worst options,
@rainbow (6761)
15 Mar 07
Thank-you so much missy! I'm sure the results will be fine and am determined not to worry about them unless I have to, I really appreciate your prayers and friendship!
@14missy (3183)
• Australia
15 Mar 07
I'm glad Bong came through the scan OK. I said a little prayer for you both. I know how scary it is when your child has any tests done and you have to be so brave for them. Now an extra prayer is going up so that the results are fine. I'm sure they will be.. Take care and keep us informed..
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• United States
12 Mar 07
My prayes are with you and little Bong this morning, rainbow. Please keep us upadated on how everything goes.
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@rainbow (6761)
13 Mar 07
Thank-you so much for your kind thoughts and prayers, as ssoon as I have the results I promise to let you know that hopefully he's fine.
@dbcraff (162)
• United States
17 Mar 07
I am sorry I didn't get on here sooner! I have been kind of tied up lately I hope all went well. I know how hard that can be. I will keep you in my prayers.
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@rainbow (6761)
17 Mar 07
It's ok honey you got your good thought in in time to help the results be good, which I'm sure they will be. I know how busy you get and hope you and yours are all fine. Big hugs to you all!
@Thoroughrob (11742)
• United States
10 Mar 07
Good luck and I hope everything comes out fine. It will be quite and experience for him even though they put him to sleep. Try to keep him from getting all worked up about it. The worst part will be not being able to have breakfast or a drink for him I am sure.
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@rainbow (6761)
10 Mar 07
Hi, thanks for your support - it means a lot! Yes I can see the getting up early and no drinks and travelling really upsetting him, but it has to be done just to be on the safe side, I'm sure he'll be fine as far as the Scan is concerned. It's gas and air and some cream to numb his hand in case they need to put some dye in. Hopefully we should be home by teatime.
• United States
10 Mar 07
I empathize with you. MRI scans are uncomfortable and often scary. I've been through them with both my parents. Anyway, I'm sure your little boy will be just fine. Stay optimistic and try not to stress out over this, because the last thing you want to do is let your son see you sweat, you know?***Here's a BUNCH of positive vibes coming your way.*** Stay strong.
@rainbow (6761)
10 Mar 07
Thank-you so much hon, I hope your parents were both ok it must have been an anxious time for you all. I feel sure Bong will be ok, it's just to make sure that the headaches are as we think they are - stress related. Thanks for the positive vibes I'm taking them all with him Monday morning.
@switlyf (649)
• Philippines
10 Mar 07
i will pray for him...
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@rainbow (6761)
10 Mar 07
Thank-you I'm sure with all the love being passed on to him everything will be ok!