Lots of NOSE BROWNING here in MYLOT

Hehehe...funny one...no that won't play a role in your rating. But yes it's all about giving opinion, but some people don't really need to kiss a**.

And that's because theer is some people that talk and express themselves the wrong way.

I tend to agree with you on what you say about some are hell-bent on causing agruments. I used to like being the devil's advocate, but here on mylot it does not seem like the wisest thing to do. I say this not because of the money issue but because of something terrible that happened here recently. I will not mention what the discussion was about but it was a rather heated one that appeared to be set up just to bash a particular person and their beliefs. Eventually, a secret from their past would be posted out in the open for all to see. I am sure it hurt them enormously. This made me a little more wary about playing devil's advocate, or bringing people together with obviously diverse opinions that could actually lead to having a real negative impact on someones life. For every action there is a reaction. And consquences are only as real as you acknowlegde them as not being mere chance accident.

People are affraid yes and that's why some do suck up.

Yes it's ok to agree, but sometimes it shows how people agree too much to point that they are sucking up. Anyway I see that, maybe you don't.

There is a way to disagree nicely and respectfully, if you disagree by provoquing and blasting someone, then you'll be be smashed and stepped on.

Exactly, you get my point. Finally someone gets my point.

LOL, you don't know me very well then. I never smash anyone. When I disagree it is without judgement. But of course you were speaking of anyone not just of me. So you are absolutly right. There are people who like to abuse others.

;))) if there's anyone who smiles, it's me hunny. I like it here I like people here, but some are just too much. I never had any problems here or with anyone, but being way over nice is not really beleivable sometimes.

I guess since I'm nre here I haven't seen it.

Sorry but I do care, but I hate a** kissers.

Thanks for understading what I mean and what you do is the right way of doing things.

That I understand, but some people "act" extra nice to get what they think they'll get.

True and it makes sense b/c when you kiss so much tooshie your nose has nowhere else to go ;) And to this discussion: I hate to sound stereotypical but this is just from observation. I find that the Indians and other South Asians seem to be the brown nosers in mylot. It could be due to a culture difference b/c the British and Americans are more blunt than they are and we're thinking, "Geez, don't be so happy." It also comes in hand with getting paid (We want to stay, right?) and like you said, getting a high rating. I'm blunt myself and I find if I state my mind in a reasonable and intelligent manner there is nothing wrong with that. It's a forum and if there are no debates, what good is this place? It's what keeps the place going. I'd rather see debates than "Yes! I agree and you are SO right!" So I do agree with you that I do see that going on in myLot.