How?
By bgerig
@bgerig (1258)
United States
March 9, 2007 8:53pm CST
How did you lose your virginity? Was it a good experience? I lost mine when I was 14, almost 15. The girl was quite a few years older than I. She was the aggressor, so to speak. I honestly did not know what I was doing...that was obvious...but she did think I was much older than I actually was because I was physcially more mature than other guys that age. I was at an outside party...a late night barbeque which turned into a drinking party. I actually also got drunk for the first time that night. That is actually what I got in trouble for the next morning. We would continue to see each other, secretly for about six months...until she got pregnant. That, and the hang over the morning after, pretty well ruins my memory of the first time.
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11 responses
@kiiizu (1901)
• Estonia
11 Mar 07
It happened in summer when I got 18. I can't remember anymore, was it before or after my birthday. He was much older than me, and quite experienced, I guess, but I can't say I enjoyed it. It happened in a car, he drove in a wood, where we hoped to find a nice quiet place. It turned out afterwards that it wasn't so quiet at all, somebody appeared there almost the same minute we've finished, and I guess, he understood quite well what we were doing. We had to drive away again pretty fast.
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@cassidy22 (2974)
• United States
10 Mar 07
I was 20. I wasnt planning on it at all. I got drunk at a party, and don't remember much else. It was just a big honest mistake on both of our parts. He's still my friend, we did date for a while after that. But we ended up becoming geat friends instead. It's fine. Everyone makes such a big deal out of your first time, and it's usually a huge let down anyhow!
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@laurabeth (145)
• United States
10 Mar 07
I thought my first time was special at the time but it really wasnt. I was 15 and he was 23, we were both drunk, and the creappy relationship lasted all of like two months. Overall, big fat bad. :(
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@tad1fan (3367)
• Canada
14 Mar 07
I can relate to you here.....I was 18,and am a true believer of telling my kids that the first time WILL get you pregnant!My oldest believed it because she was a product of my first time....it was a wonderful experience until I had to tell my parents about the baby!LOL
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@racheld (840)
• United States
12 Mar 07
I lost mine when I was fifteen as well. It was with my first serious boyfriend in high school. We had been dating for over a year and it was on Valentine's Day. He invited me over and downstairs in the living room he had candles, little red heart cutouts from construction paper. It was really romantic!
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@rarrimalion (674)
• United States
12 Mar 07
i was 17 and it was with my best (guy) friend. I do not regret it because I loved him, even though we were not dating. We have grown apart although we still talk, but I still do not regret it. It was a good experience and actually it didn't hurt me at all.
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@Connie1013 (1098)
• United States
12 Mar 07
Let's just say I was a really stupid 14 year old mixed up with a adult male. It started badly and ended badly. I learned that NO means NO and some MEN have no respect for it.
@babiixgiirl (258)
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16 Nov 07
I lost my virginity when I was 15, to a 'friend', well, really, my friend's cousin, and I regretted it almost immediately. I'd just lost my best friend, and was rather upset, understandably, and I've never really forgiven the guy, I've always thought he took advantage of how upset I was, and made me feel guilty about 'leading him on' the next day, too.
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