Do you think he would notice?

I totally get you, and I feel for you. I would definitely do this to mine as well, but he's a light sleeper and he'd probably beat me up for it.

I must be missing a lot of details because that sounds like a terrible thing to do to him. :( Hitting another person should never be a "release" for anger. o_O

there are situations when you get really bugged on your spouse and you think of ways to get rid of your anger and frustrations.i know its hard to control and maddening if your are really-really bugged for a good reason. but i believe in not hitting my partner..and that too when he is sleeping.i think if i do that i'll feel like a coward. if i really need to hit him i will prefer doing that when he is awake. i think whatever you are thinking to do is not a good idea.i think you need to communicate to him well. all the best!

I really don't know how to respond to this as I have no idea as to how hw has irritated you. Must be pretty terrible if you're thinking of getting physical about it. A word of caution.... It's better to find someone more compatable than to start a continuing cycle of unhappiness. Remember there are many men who would feel that you were their quenn, their deliverance, their everything. If that isn't what you have but want then start making yourself available for the better things in life. I hope that you will take the more mature and meaningful path in this situation as you will find it much more rewarding. Seek and you shall find!