More than just a friend

@akopoto (177)
Philippines
March 10, 2007 6:53am CST
I badly need help. I didn't expect this to happen but I think I'm falling in love with one of my bestfriend. The weird feeling keeps on occuring everytime I see her. I don't really know how to tell it to her. I'm afraid that if I confess my feelings to her, she'll start to avoid me. I really need some advise here.
3 responses
@12051976 (231)
• Ghana
10 Mar 07
Don't be afraid my friend. There are so many ways of killing a cat. For all you know she also love you but since you are the man you have to make the approach. i suggest that since you have been friends its not going to be easy telling her verbally about you feelings for her nowadays. Just start by buying her gift like cards,flowers etc.and present it to her in her nice mood time. By doing these you draw her attention about your feeling and i promise her reaction will show whether she also loves you or not. It's not always the best to propose to a girl verbally.Try it!
@akopoto (177)
• Philippines
10 Mar 07
that might really work actually. Thanks.
@sutan74 (1112)
• Philippines
12 Mar 07
You should let her know how you feel, if you don't take the first step you'll never know if she have feelings for you too. Maybe she likes you also and would go beyond the friendship you have. Ask the help of some of your common friends...maybe they can patch the two of you. Good luck
@laarni080 (127)
• Philippines
11 Mar 07
Its nice to hear that youve fallen in love with your bestfriend, its not bad, unless you talk to her nicely, and its nice that you know your attitude and its not hard to adjust on some things. Go for it.