what ll u do???how ll u react???

i can never hear someone saying bad about me or my firnds. i just went into a quarrel with a person who was using abuse words for a friend of mine without ant reason. the one thing i hate the most is the abuse words, either a person uses it for me or for my friends.

No matter how close the friend is.... If someone speaks ill about any of friend i will go straight to that person and ask him !!! later on only i will inform this to my friend in a way that it will never hurt my friend.....

i would ask him a really good reason for that and try to defend my friend........ but i havent goton a reply of my question ..thats wold u fall for me plus if no why not

This is a very hard question that I don't really know how to answer. I guess I would have to say it all depends on what the person is saying. If it is bad enough I would alert my friend. Maybe something that would cause she/he harm. I would try not to confront that person. After all, they are not speaking to me in the first place, if I am over hearing a conversation. But, then again it all depends on what is being said, if I felt that I needed to stop that person immediately, I would do it with the least conflict possible.

well to be honest i will definetly go that person and would like to go to bottom of it what that person is saying and try to rectify things at first place and if that cant be done then i will talk about this to my friend if that is regarding any thing seriouly and if it doesnt have much significance then will ignore that

If it was a good friend, I would have to tell them as I would want them to be more careful around this person. I would also let that person know that I had every intention of telling my friend. From there, it would be up to my friend to decide how they wanted to handle it. I would go with them to confront the person if they wanted to, but most of the time, these type of people aren't worth getting all worked up over. :)