i have a very possesive boyfriend...can relationships work if u r possesive?????
By anu012
@anu012 (8)
India
March 10, 2007 11:07am CST
hello every body..i have a very possesive boyfriend...he has problems if i say some one is smart...or if i say HI to a guy...well i am not a social person and hence dont have any guy friends as such...but tomorrow if iam going for a job...then i dont know whether it can affect our relation ship...as there are men at a work place...please help me out friends
2 responses
@ironstruck (2298)
• Canada
10 Mar 07
There is absolutely no way those will work.
Possessive relationships are doomed from the start.
It has nothing to do with love or caring. The person who is possessive most likely has serious issues to deal with, and I would run far and fast from that relationship.
There have been people who have married into those relationships and things get only worse.
Soon you will be a prisoner in your own home. Every time you spend a few hours on your own, you will be grilled as to where you were and what you were doing.
No, No, No........This is not a good thing for anyone.
It means as well that there is no trust in that relationship. If there was trust there would be no need to be possessive.
@Married2aMarine (1273)
• United States
10 Mar 07
Possessive boyfriends are dangerous. They are not only dangerous physically but emotionally and mentally. They will beat you down with their cruel remarks and constantly downgrade you and make you feel like you're nothing. They are possessive because they are insecure about themselves. They have to make you look bad so they look good and they don't want you to leave them for someone better. But you should! You deserve someone SO much better, who would treat you like a princess and giveyou the respect and love you deserve.