If you find out your financee is not a virgin, WHAT WILLYOU DO???

i think it does not matter too much. Ones you love that person go ahead. Don't break up because you find she is not a virgin. However, if she lied to you from the initial stage which you did not state in your message then that is a different story? Either than that stay together if you truly love her. Chao!

I don't see what the big deal is. I think as long as you two care for eachother and you two are waiting to consumate your union after you are married, what is the issue with your fiance not being a virgin? The fact that they would be waiting to share that with me is all that matters to me.

I honestly believe that it is very important for both partners to not be virgins by the time of marriage as i feel it is the only way they can know if they are sexually compatable and this is the only way to lead to a happy marriage blessed be