reject someone cuz he's not good looking?
By catch_me
@catch_me (930)
India
March 10, 2007 11:13am CST
would you reject a guy just because he is not good looking? not ugly ugly, just not good looking.
he treats you super duper uberly well. the sweetest and nicest guy ever, besides his looks. would you mind??
please tell what you really think, but dont give me those personality over looks stuff.. thats not reality.
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10 responses
@simplycza (1480)
• Philippines
10 Mar 07
hi there, it happened to me before. I reject a guy simply because he is not good looking though i admit he posseses a good quality, caring, thoughtful, sweet, etc. And it gave me a lesson, after sometime i've heard he met another girl and soon they got married. The last time i knew they are now doing great and living a happy family together.
if I could just go back to that time when he still courting me, i will change and accepted him. Beauty is not important, it was the heart whom i need to see.
@suren2k6cse (2621)
• India
13 Mar 07
i wont do like that. i will talk to the person who are feeling alone. i will never keept my sourrounding with moodout. i will talk to all to make them relax
@MySpot (2600)
• United States
11 Mar 07
No. Personality over looks IS reality! Haven't you ever met someone you found physically attractive until you got to know them or vice versa? That's where the old saying, "Beauty is only skin deep but ugly is to the bone." comes from.
I've been with my hubby since 1989. When you truly love someone, you don't even see them for their physical attributes anymore. Also, a long term relationship is based on so many more important things like common interests, friendship, good communication, a close bond and unconditional love... that means you love and accept them for who they are and not how they look. Looks can change in an instance. What if your spouse of 20 years was badly burned in a house fire? Would you love them or want to be with them any less?
@phon4u (2215)
• Laos
11 Mar 07
I would be interested in meeting more attractive women than the ugly ones. If they have good hearts for me I would accept it to be considered. Nice people will choose nice people. When they are ugly they have much money they can meet all people without hesitating.
@scarletminivet (355)
• India
11 Mar 07
No..I would not reject anyone based on looks and I am being honest about it..Its foolish & silly to reject someone just because he dose'nt look good...
@laarni080 (127)
• Philippines
11 Mar 07
For me looks is not important, as long that he is sincere to you, he knows how to respect you all the way, nice, always there for you as a friend. I dont need a good looking person if he doesnt have an attitude.
@smilingurvashi (1151)
• India
10 Mar 07
i think usually no good-looking girl will want to fall for a ugly looking guy.if the girl herself is not presentable then i think she may accept the proposal of a okay-dokay looking guy. but there are still handful of girls, including me who think a guy who is so caring and nice need not be very handsome to be accepted. i married to my spouse not because of his looks but because he loves me so much.i think that's what stays even if one grows old and ugly.
@colega17 (312)
• Romania
10 Mar 07
If I would mind ? I won't mind if he were my friend . . . just friend . To get involved in a relationship I think both good looking and nice character are important . That makes a boyfriend different from other boys . . . Maybe you like the others for their behavior but it is not enough . . .But this is my opinion . . . :)
@Anakata2007 (1785)
• Canada
10 Mar 07
Well you can't spend the rest of your life with a guy who doesn't attract you. Part of long term attraction is chemistry. However, I think you should give him a bit of a chance because sometimes the best and most stable relationships are built on a foundation of chemistry that appears over time. Chemistry should be based on true love and not just on how someone looks. BUT if you never get the feeling, then you shoudln't be with him. It's not fair for you or for him.
@healer (1779)
• India
10 Mar 07
It depends on us, i mean different person has got different view point here. For me looks is also very important but if someone loves me like the way i dream of than surely he will be good looking lolzzzzzzz. if a guy caring and sweet natured than he has everything i should say.