some truths better untold...?

I too accept with you.But to me first we should convince them and then when we are confident on our relation with them we can speak out the truth.But it is better that some are to remain untold,than to be an invisible barrier between the two..

it s ur choice and also depends on ur partner how he takes the truth.. if u feel telling the truth wont make any problem in u r relationship and only will create small fights ten it is better tell the truth but if u feel telling will spoil u r relatioship it s better u hide.. but surely we will fell guilty if we do that.. so it s better we dont do anything which wll hurt our partner.. beacuse he is the person whom we are goin 2 share our whole life then y dont we do things which can be shared with hi... is'nt it

I think if you truly love your spouse there should be no secrets between you. You and your spouse should know eachother through and through.

I think it depends on the secret. How ashamed of the secret are you? Do you think it will cause him/her to lose respect for you? Is it something you have grown past? I think everyone has some kind of secret they are not particularly proud of. But is it really so bad that it may come back to haunt you? If you feel it can, then don't let it blind side your partner. I have said to my husband that I've become a better person than I used to be. I've told him that there are things in my past I don't particularly want to talk about with him. Fortunately, he's ok with that. I know he has secrets from his past that he doesn't want to share with me. I even think I know what it could be. But I don't want to ask and I don't want to hear the answer I think he will give me. That's just us! We have a wonderful relationship. It's what we see in each other now that is important. Ironically enough, my husband just walked in and caught me writing this. He read it and agrees with me. Of course, I know that all couples couldn't be this understanding of each other.

Why should I tell the truth if it will end our relationship. Sometimes there are secrets that need to remained secrets and there are truth that need to be untold for safety purposes. Just my opinion.