Is it true that a man looses its freedom after marriage?
By sunil999
@sunil999 (31)
India
March 11, 2007 1:13am CST
How would u feel when someone(ur wife)keeps u watching all the time what u eat,drink,where u go etc.It is really very irritating for me.In my opinion i need a little bit of freedom for i m having my own world of imagination,where i m the creator and like no one's interference.Sometimes i also feel to do many things alone such as watching movies etc.There r certain things which i can't share with anyone except the ALMIGHTY GOD.
4 responses
@bicklelady (1404)
• United States
13 Mar 07
Oh Wow! I am so sorry. It does not sound like you are married. It sounds like you are in prison. I have my own life and my hubby has his own life and we have a life together. I trust my hubby and he trust me. Have you discussed this with your wife? Maybe she does not relize what she is doing. It sounds like sometime in her life, she has been hurt by someone and now she has trust issues. I wish you the best of luck.
@MissMo (170)
• United States
12 Mar 07
I think that most women in marriages would respect her husband's right to privacy once in a while. I've never been married, so I'm not speaking from experience, but I don't think that a relationship where one partner is constantly "watching over" the other sounds like a very healthy one to me.
Not all women are like that, and you can be sure that some men ARE like that! It's not just men who can lose freedom in marriages.
@Fixpcbugs (274)
• India
12 Mar 07
....It is a little bit true,I think.It depends upon the women's understanding about her husband.
@kaiyascloset (372)
• United States
12 Mar 07
It sounds like you have the wrong view on marriage. It's not about watching your every move. It sounds like those are the dishonet marriages when someone doesn't trust their spouse. Marriage is a bonding for a lifetime and you want to share everything with that special person. It may take some a while to mature for some time before they are ready to consider marriage!
