would you?
@littlehoneymonster (383)
7 responses
@bravekhan12 (25)
• Pakistan
11 Mar 07
i am not married. I m planning to get married next year. But i m little confused about getting married because some of my friend tell me that getting married is like putting your self in a cage while some says that marriage is a good thing. i dont know what to do. :(
@mic_tcs (264)
• Malaysia
11 Mar 07
I think as long as you love your partner and you really planning to live together with her for the rest of your life, then you should get married as you need to be responsible for her also, not only care for yourself. If you not thinking like that, then you might as well just breakup with her as you might wasting her time. After you get married, communication is very important to have a everlasting relationship with your wife.
@littlehoneymonster (383)
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11 Mar 07
if your in love with the person then go for it, but if your feeling caged in now then you need to think about what you really want
@danishcanadian (28955)
• Canada
11 Mar 07
Yes I would. I am in love with a wonderful man, and I can't wait to see where the relationship goes next. We are both very very excited about things to come to us in the future.
@bravekhan12 (25)
• Pakistan
11 Mar 07
Best wished for you. Please make your relationship on trust and truth. It will live for ever.
@12051976 (231)
• Ghana
12 Mar 07
Yes! i will get marriage to fulfill the word of God and to make him proud in my life.
@blue_fairee (236)
• Pakistan
11 Mar 07
i am afraid "NO". but would love to get married if found the right person.
@twistedangelwings (350)
• Australia
11 Mar 07
I can honestly say I have no real intention of getting married. It just hasn't been something that has really ever been an interest or dream of mine. I remember as a kid friends would talk about their dream weddings and I'd just sit there really not caring all that much. My mother has even remarked that as much as she wants me to, she doesn't see me getting married with the big ceremony deal. She said a few years ago that IF I get married she actually wouldn't be surprised if I took off for a holiday and came home saying I was married. Truth be told, if I did get married that is exactly what I would do.
At the end of the day, if someone asked me, and it felt right I'm not convinced I'd say no just for the sake of me not really imaging me being married. But I'm definetly not planning it in any way shape of form, and don't really anticipate it to happen. I don't really see the reason why society says/believes the only way to people can show their love and commitment to each other is through having a piece of paper and a ring. I don't believe people need either to show love or commitment. Paper can be torn or thrown away, just like a ring can. It is just another materialistic item really as far as I'm concerned.
