What should you do?
@chasserdesreves (142)
Philippines
March 11, 2007 6:18am CST
Okay, a friend was asking me this question. Do you have to spend more time with your husband or kids even if the kids are all grown up but still lives with you? My answer is spend more time with kids because like what I always hear, kids are more important than husbands.
So if I'm going to ask you this question, would you spend more time with your husband or more time with kids?
3 responses
@ChaJudLeoBit (1656)
• United States
11 Mar 07
Definatly your husband!! Your kids are grown and need to get lives of their own. Your husband is supposed to be your soulmate and companion. Kids should never be put above your relationship with your husband, if you are to have a happy fulfilling marriage. Just because the kids are hanging around longer than they should is no reason to keep your husband on a lower rung of the ladder. When is it his turn? If your kids have gotten your attention their whole lives, when does your husband get to be your #1? Would you like to be his #2? (Actually, God is #1, then spouse, then children).
@chasserdesreves (142)
• Philippines
11 Mar 07
My friend works in the United States. She went home for a vacation, they haven't seen her for 4 years already. I think the kids and the husband misses my friend but my friend spends more time with her husband but the kids want to spend more time with her because they obviously missed her.
@Indian2007 (129)
• India
11 Mar 07
Hi
we all love our family so the question of spending more time shouldnt be based on decision but as per situation demands. As said by veddika that when the kids are small they need more attention and when your suolmates deserves, you should spend more time with him/her.
@santwana_veddika (2018)
• India
11 Mar 07
my baby is only 5 years old so i have to spend more time with her .
but after when she will grown she will have own world and that time i think i will spend more time with my husband .
