Just got married and are already quarrelling....Its all your fault...

i think it helps to live together before you get married i lived with my now husband for 4 years before we got married now we have been married for going on 3 years i think when you live together first you get to see all the little things that bug you and deal with them before you tie the knot i thought i had seen everything but after we got married there were a few things i hadnt noticed before that bugged me so i brought them up 2 my husband and he said that there were alot of little things i do that bugs him but he doesnt bring them up because he doesnt see the point because they are just that little things and now i do what he does i dont sweat the small things and we get along better then ever

That's not really uncommon since when you get married, you tend to discover things about your partner that you've never knew before. Usually, it's those little habitual things that he's done for so long and that you never knew or never paid any attention until the whole marriage. For me, it's not really logical to quarrel over these petty things, you would just be spending some bad energy on it. Instead, what's important, not only in marriage but in any relationship, is you get to respect your partner. Given you really can't stand the toothpaste being squeezed from the middle, both should talk about this seriously and come into an understanding.This is just my opinion =) ^___^

I have some in-depth experience in this field as I'm the eye witness of such a happening each day. Issue is not as important as fact that it has to be started somehow. So it gets started almost about anything, from toothpaste to tomatoes and pins to potatoes, anything under the sky, or even above the sky (When the chant the names of their Lt. ancestors!) may be the issue of the day. This usually starts with a humble murmuring from the mistress and goes on increasing rapidly like a forest fire. The sound becomes louder as the time goes on, the hubby has to stop at some point of time.. then someday... a crying-episod of the Mistress follows...while some other day a simple negotiation works for the time being, atleast till the next morning session. And it goes on like an unending soap-opera...and wish it never ends...as we find each episode pretty interesting..lol..

Ha ha ha, all cuples has things that annoyes them about their partner, the important thing is that u know how to work them out =)

Well,it is true.You know,new wedding couples need time to adapt to each other.We all have some bad habits.And it takes time to get accustommed to each other.Actually,new wedding couples tend to quarrel more than old ones.Especially in the first five yrs.And some studies show it is the period the marriage is not reliable and easy to break.If new couples can get adapt to each other in these five yrs.They are very likely to have a stable marriage.