am I the only one looking for a gentleman?

Oh dear yes - I am "looking" for such a man but more and more I wonder if such a man does exist - the saying "all the good ones are taken" is really really true when you get into my age bracket. Some say I'm just being too picky but I like to think I am just being particular, I've been down that road too many times, being with the wrong man, don't want to do it again.

hey!! tell me wud u believe me here if i say i m a gentleman... i dont think u wud..but anyways until and unless u get to know a guy..u spend time with him u cant judge him..being gentle is not an inborn feature....

love,understanding, respect, honesty, humour and ofcouse a good backgound are the things i have always watched for in my man, haven't found someone with all though. i have seen men with awefully good looks and chivalrous gestures but somewhere deep within they are dandies and full of supercial whims. i would rather choose a good , honest human without superficial good looks than an apparently unsurpassble poseur. thank you

well i can't say i'm a gentleman with woman,cos i don't know whats that mean!!??? i'm simple and easy guy, i try too be one( whatever that gentlemen's mean is) but it doesn't work, i can say i try too be good with my friends well if my best try is good enough for them or not i don't know, cos they are too good to tell me if i'm not. if you are looking for a perfect one you just wasting your time love,enjoy your life,don't wait for it to come along,time won't pass

Years ago, I experienced a terrible relationship with a boorish man who was charming but had no sense of respect or moral fiber. I promised myself, never again. The next guy I dated was a doctor, he was kind, compassionate, well-traveled and socially charming. He was also spineless. I did not feel protected when I was with him or that he was a figure of authority. I realized that what I sought was a balance between the "brute" and the "baron". I must have an intelligent man, yet he must also be manly. I must have a kind man, yet he must also be capable. He must be respectful and still know his own mind. As I seek to find this balance within myself, so do I require it in a mate. My grandmother used to teach me to "get your head right and your behind will follow". In other words, make sure your mind and spirit are in order and the rest will happen. Focus on the development of your self, learn from whatever relationships you encounter along the way and you will be fulfilled. Good luck and remember to allow yourself time to heal. It sounds as though you are carrying the natural baggage that comes along with heartache.

Is it a very good attribute that you need to look out for in a man.But i will like to say that it some woman that cause a lot of man to loose there gentleness.So if you see a gentle don't missuse the oppurtunity that god gives you.

ohh hun,,i truely believe that they are all gone and taken or gay lol..I have the exact same qualities i look for in a man,,especially the courtesy,manners,and he has to have a great sense of humor,.alas i have looked far,long and wide..and i just am running out of belief that he is out there,,and its sad,,because once upon a time..it wasnt this hard to find a real man with real qualities,,:(

I have to agree that search for gentleman (read “frog willing to be transformed into prince”) is every woman’s dream. I think that we are looking for whole package: good friend who can join our passion, intelligent with good manners and at least moderate gentleman. Charming Agent 007 with sweet look like Jude Law. Prince coming on white horse with red rose, diamond ring and forever love. In reality new age man is spoiled by mothers, trained by stupid p..orn movies and sites leaving woman with huge disappointment. Women are cosmic travelers with big dreams. Women are always dreaming about the man they want. Some are lucky to find Mr. Right…some are still searching. The good news is…keep your standard, accept only the best and you can turn your dreams into reality.

I would love to find a man like that. One who makes me feel special and treats me as if I were. One I can trust. One I can be comfortable with. Who will want and love me for who I am. It would be wonderful to find such a man. I wonder though if they do exist at all anymore. If they do they must either be in hiding or very rare because I sure haven't seen or met any.

You wouldn't find a man if you will set a characteristic that your man would be that. It's nice to let your heart choose to whom it would beat rather than what your mind dictate what your man should be. Everyone is looking for a gentleman but they actualy not found it because their heart loves a man opposite from their dream man.

It is always important to be nice and kind to other people, whether you are a man or a woman. Being rude and mean does not go very far with me.

There's many gentlemen around if you are not too romantic in defining the word "gentleman". I hate vulgarity too, it's not only about men, it's our world and time.. for many men it's hard to find a sensitive rational "lady" too :)

What do you mean by gentleman.Only good culture intelligence make you happy.Intelligence are always busy on their work,they may not have time to spend with you.Then you may be frasteated.Godd cultural people also have some limitations.They almost believe on their own culture,they dont have time to understand other view or culture.Only good sensiblity or good humour people may understand you.What you say now?

yes ofcourse...but i wud term gentleman as d perfect guy.. i hav always dreamt of such a guy... but d reality is dat such guys hardly exists n evn if dey do..they r already comitted... so its better 2 stop dreamng abt d impossiblities..n mak d best out of wat v hav..

Yes good manners are vey important for me and for very person in there life.A person can win someone's heart by being gentle to him.And by the i am gentle with every person not only to women.A gentle person can never fail in his life,work,love and frindship.

i realy want to believe this kind of man do exist. im waiting to meet him until now. since my devorce, i little bit picky.

ya i m a gentle man with out a girl i think being genle is nice and being with a girl is not important

ya i m a gentelmen without a girl i think being gentle is ok but being with a girl is not important

it's not that important to find a gentleman. all u need is a man who can provide u enough food, shelter and the basic things in life so u can concentrate your effort and time on other things like making babies... a man cannot be a gentleman forever. it'll be hard to protect him from vicious women out there.

I would consider myself a gentelman, it's first nature for me to treat others respectfully and with consideration. I would say however that I am not a gentleman to the point of losing my personality and individualism... I do have a colorful vocabulary at times, as well as many opinions on things (not all of them politically correct). Wouldn't it be quite a boring world if everyone's personality were sugar-coated?