revenge to someone you got hurt...
By fianne
@fianne (1057)
United States
March 11, 2007 8:18pm CST
i know it is not right but i would like to get revenge again to someone who deeply hurt me before. my dignity was really like put to the cemetery by everybody i knew. i have had my anorexia, it is the defficulty in eating thinking that you are really fat when i n fact you are not and getting skin bones already. he told my family that i had three times abortion, use illegal drugs (shabu, as to name it), i sell my body every after school. when i knew about it, i felt like i will really kill him. the sad thing was, my family confronted me about it and i sensed like they believe the person who told them about it. that time i really was alone and got no one to support me, even my friends doubted me. so i talked to my family it is better off if i leave the house and be free from them if they think like that to me. and i talked to the person who scattered the story. he told me he just heard it. i told him, what if i go to the police station and file you a libel case? i will put you a more than your life cost for my dignity to be paid to me? even your life is not worth it for the damage you caused me and to my family. he just stared at me with blank expression on his face with his mouth open. my god, can you imagine my humility?
so if you are on my case, will you seek revenge? i will seek mine for sure, time will come, i will have to do it perhaps... if my mind and heart will agree.
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9 responses
@fianne (1057)
• United States
12 Mar 07
i really pray for that. i knew my revenge before was confronting him and tried to file him a case but my family stopped me because of their reasons. even if i was really hurt by them for not believing me, i still respected them by following them. but there is a feeling i me that i want more revenge, especially when i see him.
@The_Eagle_1 (1121)
• Australia
25 Apr 07
If people are lame enough to believe what he says.... then revenge by you will only make people think it may be true about the lies! Best is to be who you are and if people and friends doubt that then the question is "how good a person or friend are they"!! Liars trip over their own tongues in the end!!
@sherry_navilla (420)
• Slovak Republic
12 Mar 07
i really don't know but thins like those if they are not true should not affect you.. i have lived by the credo that i don't believe what other people say about me... i will only let them speak i listen but do nothing i have my own life to live and i will live it by my own rules and standard.. i guess you should be braver for your own sake.
@fianne (1057)
• United States
12 Mar 07
yes, true. but it was degrading on my part because i was really thin that time. before i was really chubby and just because of my sickness of anorexia, those stories were scattered everywhere. it really has ruined me especially that my family was really affected.
@shenzhouplaza (1676)
• China
12 Mar 07
My suggestion is not to take revenge agaist this guy. when you are taking revenge against some other people, even this guy is evil, you are hurting yourself. Forget about what this guy has done to you. Such a guy is not worth your taking revenge. He is nothing but garbage.If I were you , I would think in this way.having a good mood is very important to you.
@jennybianca (12912)
• Australia
13 Mar 07
Perhaps it would be best if you filed defamation charges. It is your right to do this.
If you can't afford it, legal aid will probably help you.
@CatEyes (2448)
• United States
12 Mar 07
Yikes/ I have had this happen to me too! Having revenge will only fuel the anger and never asuage the hurt and sorrow. Keep to your truth and the truth will avail you like no other will. I know this is hard; I have been through it too. STAY away from this person, and never speak to them again, but do not play along with their trick. Do not let them win. If you are hurting like this and want so much revenge he is getting what he wants.
@brckoba (795)
• United States
12 Mar 07
Hello! I'm Brckoba's wife. He asked me to respond this since he thought I would give you a better response. When I was fifteen I was raped by someone who I trusted. The worst part is that he only got 2 years in prison for his crime and 3 of parole, since it was his first offense. He ruined my life and my family's reputation. Everyone knew I was raped and therefore not a virgin anymore. I wasn't wife material. For the next three years of my life all could think of is get even with him. I wanted to make him suffer as much as he made me suffer. I wanted to kill him slowly. Then I looked at myself in the mirror and realized that hatred had taken control over my life. I wasn't myself anymore. I had hit rock bottom. From that day I chose not to think about this incident and if I do think about it. It would be only to make me feel stronger and better as a person. My advice to you is: Don't let your thoughts of revenge take your life. At the end you are the one who will be more hurt. God has a funny way to give us what we need. This is only a test, and if you keep on being true to yourself you will pass it and the rewards will be amazing! Good luck!
