Not again....

@rjbass (1422)
United States
March 11, 2007 9:42pm CST
My last discussion was about having to wait for the cable guy and how I was so irritated. Today is my 7 year anniversary and I had a special day planned out. Everything was / is good and I spent some quality time with my wife alone and without the kids. The only complaint I have is that my flowers and card that I ordered from ftd.com never arrived. I called customer service and they told me that the store that was delivering was closed for the day and I would have to wait until tomorrow to which I politely replied "tomoorow is not my anniversary....today is." What was their reply...."well, would you like to cancel?" I did. It's not about the money and I was hoping to get something delivered....anything. But it didn't happen and I had to give my wife an excuse rather than flowers. Oh well...it's a good thing that we love each other regardless of gifts or I would have been in the doghouse.
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@polachicago (18716)
• United States
13 Mar 07
The best gifts for women will enrich their lives by pampering them, making them feel sexy or assisting them in their daily lives.Happy Anniversary!
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@rjbass (1422)
• United States
13 Mar 07
Thank you. I like to think that I make my wife feel needed and wanted. I also love helping out around the house and wirh the kids. The best part of it is that it isn't hard for me to do this as it doesn't come as a chore but as part of my relationship because I adore my wife so very much.
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@Willowlady (10658)
• United States
12 Mar 07
You sure don't have much luck with things. Am glad you had an ok anniversary. Am hoping that this will be end to the difficulties that you experience. Happy Belated Anniversary to you two. Many more is what I wish for you.
@rjbass (1422)
• United States
12 Mar 07
Thank you so much. It was a hard week though I try to take things in stride and not let little things like this really get me upset. It really does help to express my frustrations in writing rather than in voice.
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@perugu (5279)
• India
12 Mar 07
hi,say thank god for having such a understanding partner,as you both are happy without gifts and flowers also.Wish you belated happy marriage anniversary.
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@rjbass (1422)
• United States
12 Mar 07
Thanks perugu. Yes, I am very grateful for having such a wonderful wife and kids. It makes everything seem brighter and even on the worse days, everything seems good.
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@judyt00 (3497)
• Canada
12 Mar 07
i hate ftd, Years ago, when i was just getingback to work My daughter and I decided to send flowers to my mom for Christmas, and we saw he perfect bouquet at a ftd store, they refused to take CASH! So we had to find my sis and use her credit card. we callde the Canadian home office, and yelled at them. they made the boquet bigger than we ordered for our troubles, but really a business that doesn't take cash?
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@rjbass (1422)
• United States
12 Mar 07
That really is odd and a huge inconvinience. I try to spend cash whenever I can rather than charge. I vaguely remeber from my business law class in college that it is by law that a business has to accept cash in the United States but my class was a long time ago and I could be wrong. Either way, I would have walked out of the store without buying anything and still complained. Thank you for sharing your experience with me.
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• Canada
12 Mar 07
I just hate when plans like that fall through. It was completely out of your hands. I'm sure your wife understood, and you do know that you don't need a special occasion to give your lady flowers... Some day next week, when she least expects it, have some delivered. She will appreciate it more than you know. Happy Anniversary!!
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@rjbass (1422)
• United States
12 Mar 07
Great advise! I am going to do exactly that. You're a genius. I really appreciate your post. Thank you.
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@Connie1013 (1098)
• United States
12 Mar 07
At least you tried. You should get brownie points for that. Happy 7th year Anniversary. I hope ya go get her something special tomorrow. ;) You get a anniversay + just for this post.
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@rjbass (1422)
• United States
12 Mar 07
Thank you :) We had a wonderful day regardless of the delivery snafu but it was just disappointing because it was to be a suprise.
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