money a problem when u have a girlfriend..
By 86akbarman86
@86akbarman86 (36)
India
March 12, 2007 2:11am CST
hi guys,
may be this topic would have been discussed..but i want to talk about this..i really find it tough to have a girlfriend and also to save money..somehow or the other,u will spend money on her..start from the year start..to say happy new year in a special way..to say valentine day in a special day..spend the whole day in some nice resort..watch movies..then birthdays,,special days like fist day we met..then daily outings...and i dont think have to mention anymore..so can u guys help me in this..will she understand what i feel..how do i tell her all this..
6 responses
@ackars (1942)
• India
13 Mar 07
hey dude money is always a problem...but if you are a rich dude,then you ve enough to spent on her but if are on the other side,noway you can think of one..Even if you wish to have one,go for someone of your status...Other option is to go for a gal who is rich and tell her i dont have money to spent on whenever money problem comes...just chill.
@86akbarman86 (36)
• India
13 Mar 07
ya dude..ur idea is titally new to me..but can u tall me how to fin dthe girls who are rich and would spend on guys?
@nirmalkomal (63)
• India
12 Mar 07
Hi dont think that your spending the money to her.live simple, expect less & spend more when it required.what your spending it should be worth.
@sidoney (1033)
• Jamaica
12 Mar 07
I want a man like you for me I have always paid my way and when me and my bf got together that has not changed no special moments here but i did take him out once and gave him flower and all the works for his birthday have not had the luck of having such gestures return to me
@86akbarman86 (36)
• India
13 Mar 07
hi sidoney..girls like u are what i search for..who understand the situation...thanks..
@joby_09 (498)
• Philippines
12 Mar 07
I really think money shouldn't be an issue in a relationship. Okay, society and tradition dictate that it is the guy who do the spending whenever he go out on a date with his girlfriend. But you have the choice. I think good girlfriends wouldn't mind if both of you share on the expenses of your date. You also have your needs. I'm sure your girlfriend will understand.=)
@socorban (650)
• United States
12 Mar 07
Well if your girlfriend has a problem with you wanting to save money ditch her cuase shes a money grub. You should not be asahmed with wanting to save money, sacrafices must be made. It general culture and Tv that tells us we have to buy things to show our love and affection. BULL
You can buy infatuation, but you cannot buy love, nor should you have to. I was in a similar situation with a girl, but when i put out for a house i had to cut back on frivilous expenses. I simply told her i need the cash and cant afford blowing money on all kinds of things. She understood the situation completely.
@86akbarman86 (36)
• India
13 Mar 07
thanks socorban..thts helpful..but i think i was only wrong in not telling her about my feelings fully..
@himanshugpt (74)
• India
12 Mar 07
ya brother money is always a problem for the guys lke us..... n believe me their is no way out of here as we boys also dont want to sahre the expenses .... igo problem.. well we can find some other way of earning more.... earn more n spend more.... this would be nice.. isn't it..
@86akbarman86 (36)
• India
13 Mar 07
hi..after the responses,i feel..i should talk with my girl first..what do u say..hope it works..
