abortion

@globur (206)
India
March 12, 2007 2:38am CST
I am a married man at age of 37.i have a two year old girl.my wife has concieved second.it is 60 days old.she wants to abort it.she is not ready to carry and give birth to a new baby.i am interested to have a second child.i tried to convince her. she is not ready to hear me.she is not ready to accept my views. now,she hates me on the matter.she keeps distance from me.she avoids movements which relates to our relationship. our relationship is going to a bad condition. what can I do? how can I convince her? will our relation reach at an end? can anybody help us? I love her! I can not live without her. I need her. I love her, I love her, I love her................
4 responses
cefaz_21
@cefaz_21 (2596)
• Philippines
12 Mar 07
Why do you think is the reasonwhy she doesn't want the 2nd child? There must be a very serious reason behind it, Don't ever give up on pursuing her, make her talk to you and discuss the problem. It can be hard and painful but I suggest you hold on or else you'll be losing both your wife and teh child in her womb. Pray and Pray..Prayer can do miracles. Pray until something happens.and yes, your faith in God can be of big help. Keep on asking God to give you strenght.
globur
@globur (206)
• India
12 Mar 07
Dear Friend, Thank you. I feel comfort on your words. Faith in God-it is the best solution. my wife called me just a movement ago.she is going to see another doctor to get a chance for abortion. i showed my dislike for abortion. i am not ready to give her permission.
adela56
@adela56 (183)
• Philippines
12 Mar 07
yeah, you only got 2 choices. its either you abort your bby and then both of you can actually both go to hell.. or just let the bby live well you know if you were d ones hus going to be aborted how would you feel,eh?
globur
@globur (206)
• India
12 Mar 07
thank you, dear friend. i consider your response and value your words.
ssuren
@ssuren (46)
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13 Mar 07
Hi Globur,I can understand your situation.But you have to be patient. It is the time when your wife needs you. She need your support.First of all make her sure you love her a lot, and she is important to you not the unborn child.Perheps she is not ready to give birth the second child.Perheps she can't manage to take responsibility of another child as youe doughter is too young.Try to understand her.Observe yourself is your wife getting enough time to for herself? Do you manage to help her in upbringing in your doughter? These are the question only you can answer and if you find the answer you can understand her point of view.All the best for your married life.
raj1971
@raj1971 (92)
• India
16 Mar 07
hey friend, why do u want this abortion? if ur wife is ready to take the responsibility wats stoping u from standing by her side & giving support? its not that ur under 18 & too young to take responsibility. be bold in life. stand firm. be a good husband, be a good dad! i feel u should go ahead & be dad for 2nd time. it will only help spread happiness in ur house. buddy have the baby. Mark my words,it will change ur life positively!