Tough choice...

thanks. we got together also because of my eldest son. I think i've done my part. this is not the first time i attempted to leave him. 2 years ago i already left him for the same stressfull reasons. eversince i met him, he's all work i never expected that work would still be his priority even if he has his own family. he never listens to me. it has been a one way relationship eversince. I do all the adjustments for him. when i left him 2 years ago i was doing ok, till my son, who was 4 that time would always look for him so i've decided to give it another try, thinking that maybe the 4months that we were away he'd realize how important we are more than his work. it was ok at first then i got pregnant again, then that's the time i felt the pressure and stress in this relationship coz nothing has changed. till i met this guy who helped me cope up with all the stress, up to now he's the one taking care of my baby whenever im sick, coz my husband dsnt even know how to handle a baby. my eldest son loves him also and actually respected him more that he respects his father. honestly, i've never had someone who cared for me this much. all of my past relationships it was me who's in the caring part. I think this is my chance to finally be happy in life but kinda hesitant coz of what others may think.