umm love crisis plz read its importantand do reply accordingly....

love really seeks unification... it indeed does not hurt others feelings... so, if you really like her or love her just as a friend so tell her the truth that your love is only on the level of inclusive intimacy rather than exclusive intimacy... which then she needs to know that you love her as a friend...

that was a very cruel joke you played on her. I think if her heart breaks it is your own problem. you shouldn't have played such a cruel joke on someone.

Then why did you say so? Surely, you will break her heart. Woman easily fall in love, liitle affection and care, we do appreciate. It is so bad that you make her fall in love with you and yet you don't love her... Maybe, tell her the truth although you will break her heart, but that is much better than making her believe that you love her.

I'm afraid the right thing to do is to tell her the truth. It will definitely hurt her but this is the right thing to do. It would be better to tell her the truth now than have to tell her more lies over the course of time just to keep up with the charades. Please also apologize to her when you do so.

Well, you have to face the consequences of what you did. Tell her straight to her face that you are just fooling her but tell her you do care for her as a friend. Dont make her hopes run upward. If she will be hurt and walk away from you, accept it. Its your fault anyways why she is in pain. And if she said its ok, you're lucky because you can still keep her as a friend.

Good Grief!!! What did you do??? You did a very bad thing!!! Lucky for you that it's only 2 months into this. Bad news though...If you tell her you were joking around with her, it will hurt her but if you don't tell her you were kidding and let her believe that you meant what you said she will lose faith in all men and that will hurt her much more. It would be leading the poor girl to believe you meant it:( So how do you get out of this?? From a girl's perspective you need to set yourself up really good and tell her how stupid and insensitive it was of you to say something of that kind of magnitude when you were kidding, but that you think she is so amazing, wonderful exc. If you take this route, which is the best way, you need to repeatedly tell her how immature and stupid that was, you have to lower yourself completely and tell her how great you think she is and close the conversation by saying that you are not wanting a committed relationship with anyone right now and that it wouldn't be fair to her if you continued seeing eachother and stop seeing her completely its possible she might want to still be friends...if your lucky. I hope you do the right thing Good Luck!!!