i caught my wife cheating on me.my friend is also involved.what do i do now????

There is not much you can do , time is needed to heal your anger and your pain at being betrayed . I have been through this in the past , so I am not speaking from no experience , I understand the pain and hurt of being betrayed by someone you loved and trusted . I wish I could offer you more but you will have to wait the time out until you feel better and realize that no matter what it was not your fault , getting out with family and friends may help speed up your recovery when you find that there is still a big world out there just waiting for you to find something good out of it . Best of luck !!

What you do now is not an easy question. It all depends on you. Are you ready to walk away, what is going to happen with the kids, etc. These questions are going to drive you completely nuts, but when it comes down to it you will do what you need to do to keep your sanity. My ex-husband cheated on me with a girl I thought was a good friend of mine. I didn't know what I was going to do. We had two kids who were 1 and 2 at the time. I was at a loss, however I was cleaning the house one day and when I looked up I realized I had packed me and the kids clothes. I took that as a sign. It is not easy to do that especially when you have no money to back you up, but sometimes you have to do it. The thing about it is that I left them to have each other and after a while they started beating on each other, which he had never done to me, and all they did was argue and fight. They had a child and now they do not even speak. Me on the other hand I am remarried, with two more children and I have never been happier in my life. I said this only to show that you never know what it is you need to do but time will show you wether you are ready or not. Everything happens for a reason. Good luck.

Its a fatal blow for you from both the sides. You have to sacrifice both your friend and wife, for their stupid act. Lead the life without ending your precious life.

Heyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyy STOP!!!! I am sorry for what happened to you BUT why kill yourself over it ??? Divorce - YES! However, do you first want to know what happened; why did she do that?? There is NO EXCUSE to her actions but, you may find out that in some ways you may be responsible for it, for example, were you neglecting her sexually or because you were married for 7 years did your marrigae become boring with no excitments left.... I know it does not seem like it now BUT this too shall pass and if you can learn from your mistakes or those of others you will grow, become stronger and eventually you will find hapiness again. I am sorry for what you are going through...chin up tho there is light at the end of your tunnel too...

The best way to solve the problem is to talk to your wife directly. Why they cheat u? U didn't mention it. Everything will be alright, don't attempt to do anything to hurt urselve. God bless ya.