ok wat should i do im 13 and my boyfriends wants me to have s*x wit him already?

It's illegal and if your boyfriend is over 16 he could get into a lot of trouble.

U R WAY TO YOUNG IF UR BOYFRIEND HAS ENOUGH RESPECT AND LOVE THEN HE WILL WAIT TILL UR READY FOR ALL OF THIS,U HAVE A WHOLE LIFE STILL A HEAD OF U AND U DONT WANNA START TOO YOUNG

You have so much time, why now, why not wait awhile, I mean if he can't wait he is not worth it, and guys will tell you anything to get into your pants. Just wait for the right man, it should be with someone you really and truly love.

If you don't want to, don't. Dont do something someone wants you to do if you dont want to di it. All that it will create are regrets and heartbreak, trust me.

I know this is a very delicate situation and you're probably torn. Do you try to keep the boyfriend by having s*x with him or do you just tell him to get lost and risk a break up? You may think I'm saying this just because I'm in my 30's but I'm not. Just a few months ago, my husband of 15 years and I had an all night talk session... if you're young and dating, you probably know what I'm talking about. I STILL have that kind of relationship with my husband! We talked about the night we met, how we started dating, when we became intimate, and he kinda shocked me by saying he wished he'd been my first. The reason it surprised me was because I'd told him before I really wished I'd been a virgin when we got together, but he'd always said he was glad I wasn't because he would be afraid I would wonder what it'd be like to be with someone else years down the road. The problem is, my first boyfriend and my"first" was very rough, he was only into our relationship for the physical and he didn't care how I felt, didn't care if it hurt, etc... My husband on the other hand waited, he was very patient and loving, he didn't EVER pressure me into anything I wasn't ready to do. I was also 17 years old before I ever wanted to do anything. My daughter is 13, she hasn't met anyone yet she sees as"worth her time", let alone worthy of touching her where she doesn't want them to;) From a mom and woman's point of view, I say definitely wait. Sure he may make fun of you, he may tell all his friends you're chicken, blah blah blah blah... hon he isn't worth your time if he isn't willing to wait for you.

From someone who lost their virginity at a young age (14), if I could go back and do it again, I would not have done it at such a young age. In a sense, it really changed my entire life. I had my first child at age 19, and now have 4 kids. I wouldn't trade them for anything, but it would have been nice to finish college and at least have a degree to fall back on. I did turn out okay (and my kids did too) but like I said it would have been nice to make my own decisions...not have a baby make them for me. I think if your boyfriend really loves you and respects you, he will understand. If he doesn't then all he is wanting from you is s*x and he will find it no matter what you do.