who do u think has the most attchment to the child???

@rsp9098 (755)
India
March 12, 2007 10:05am CST
is it the mother or the father????
6 responses
@Newbie11 (197)
• United States
13 Mar 07
I think mother is more attached to the child.The basic socialisation of the child depends on mother at home.A baby 's first interaction starts with mother.Father comes afterwards.
@Myrrdin (3599)
• Canada
12 Mar 07
Well I think that varies from case to case. In my case I think I am more attached to my daughter then my exwife is. She has told me before in an argument that she holds me responsible since she never wanted kids in the first place. My ex has never given her a bath, she has only put her to bed a handful of times. Questions like this bother me, because so many people automatically say the mother, but come on every one is different, lots of women don't feel all that connected to their kids, and lots of dads feel a strong "maternal" instinct type connection.
@stacyv81 (5903)
• United States
12 Mar 07
I think both, moms and dads have different types of realtionships with their children, different roles they play, yet I dont think either are any less important or signifcant in a childs life. I think they are both just attached in different ways.
• India
12 Mar 07
well its a tricky discussion to reply. i think both of them are attached to child but some how here again i think female wins over males cos i have seen it ususally males are not good at taking care of them when they are young
@ackars (1942)
• India
12 Mar 07
i think its the mother...May be because of the sole reason that she/he was attached to her once closely or was a part of her once...
• United States
12 Mar 07
I think most women feel more attached to the child. Maybe it's because we carry them inside us for 9 months so we feel closer to them or maybe it's just nature. But from my experiences the mom is more attached than the father.