Do you have a best friend?

I always had best friends when I was growing up, sometimes more than one. In my late teens, early 20s, mid 20s, late 20s, I always had someone I could think of as my “best friend”. Since I reached my 30s and now even late 30s, I have several people I think of as my closest friends but not really one specific person who is my best friend out of everyone. I could say my husband is the one person that I share pretty much all my problems and happiness with so you could say he’s my best friend, he thinks my mum is my best friend because I get on so well with her and tell her pretty much everything as she does with me. So in answer to your question, I don’t have A best friend but have several very good friends who are close to me in slightly different ways.

Thats absolutely correct thought that best frnds are those with whom u can realte ur minds. I hav best friends throughout my life. I dn't choose them, they become frnds automatically. If v hav smthng that connects, v r bound 2 become frnds. While i m stdying in college rite now, but still i ve got my best frnds of school arnd. They will always be there. And herein college also, i hav my bunch of best frnds. But there is a big difference between my frnds frm school and frm college. But it hardly matters, since all of them lie in my best frnds list.

Yes, I have a best frined. But we only get the time to talk once in a while. She is so busy with her work. The last time we talk personally was last year. I didn't even remember the date due to the time lapse. She is my best friend because she acepted me whole-heartedly. She didn't judge me for what I have or don't have. She is a simple but real person. I never have to pretend wheneve she's around. She really brings out the best in me. Sad thing is we seldomly talk because we are both busy with our career. Honestly, I miss her so much. Part of the reason why I'm sad is because she's not around. I miss the old times that we're together just talking everything under the sun. We even stayed up very late at night and ended up early in the morning the next day just talking with each other. I like sharing things with her. She is a good listener and an adviser. We helped each other in every ways possible. I even compose a poem for her as a present. It is my way of thanking her for all the good things we've shared. I hope I can find someone as good as her and be her best friend also.

Unfortunately, I dont have one - I never had one.. This in fact is one great disappointment of mine since I was young - I never had anybody I could really consider a best friend.. Yes, I have established bonds with many people and I can say they're my good pals, but not best friends... I believe a best friend is someone you could jive with smoothly all the time, someone you could share anything with and someone you can do anything with... As for me, I'm never successful in the attempt of trying to find one... Hope someday I could find somebody as a best friend... I also have this idea in my mind: I think it would be great to have a bestfriend that you could eventually fall in love with... And be with her forever.. What do you think?? Wouldn't that be perfect?

well there is one myth about friends become best friends when we share the same activity & same opinion well i have best friend group where we share our views and consult for any solution of problem thanku

Why yes, my best friend is someone I knew since Junior High school, then I had lots of friends or friends I thought were friends, but now just one, I am to busy raising my kids and making my husband happy to have more then one, you know!

I don't really see it as "picking" a best friend. In my eyes a best friend just happens along in our lives for some unknown reason. I have 2 answers for whom my best friend is. First I'd have to say my wife is my best friend. We have been together for over 30 years now. We know each other like a book. We would give ourselves up to spare the other. Now a real "friend" not relative I call my best friend is a mna I've known about 20 or more years. He has moved 400 miles away but we still talk a lot etc. he would give his right arm if I needed one. he is very trustworthy,caring,loving & needed in my life. Thanks for another great disyssion sweetie. HAPPY POSTINGS FROM GRANDPA BOB !!

I have a couple one I grew up around since we were 7 years old the other is a friend I met on a job .

I've got best friends-on different time frames--elementary, high school, and college. Although I got wonderful cousins whom I grew up with I never really considered them as friends because they are my cousins and they belong to a different category. However, as I mature and understand the true concept of a friend, I realized that my two cousins Mae and Glad are my real best friends. We're the best because we never failed each other, never fought, just tampohan, and never held grudges against each other. We had a wonderful time together when we were growing up. I miss them so much and I will never exchange them to a hundred friends.

My best friend is my wife. We care for each other and we share the same mind. But I don't know how I choose her as my best friend. Perhaps God sent her to me.

Yup i do have my best friend...his name is vinod...he tops in my list for friends he use to be in all my part of life..in joy , sarrow, cry, anger, when i use to be in confusion he use to get me away from it..he use to advise me for all my good only..i am really happy to have such a great person as my friend i want all happiness in is life...:)