my step-kids
By kylanie
@kylanie (1205)
United States
March 12, 2007 1:37pm CST
I have got 3 step-kids and 2 of them I get along with the youngest called yesterday and tried to get her dad to pick up the oldest girl but we did not have enough gas so I said let's see if we can borrow it and my son went next door they only had .50cents so when he came back and told the step-dad that the dad was on the phone with the ex she heard him and told the youngest that I did not want them around so the youngest called and cussed her dad out and I told him that when he went to where his kids lived at I would not go anymore so tell me what to do because I get blamed for everything that goes wrong I am tired of getting hurt by them and very depressed all the time my husband told them that I did not say anything but they think he is covering up for me so (please) help me.
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@cttjj2312 (69)
• United States
12 Mar 07
I don't think anyone here is going to be able to help you. Not to be rude or anything. I just mean I think that his kids need to get to know you more and understand that you wouldn't say anything like that. Maybe your hubby should talk to his ex and get her to realize that when she says that it is just hurting the kids. I hope that little bit helps:)
@stephcjh (38473)
• United States
13 Mar 07
I have 3 stepkids too and if they did that to my husband, that would burn me up. I never did get along with any of them because they never gave me a chance. Their mom cheated on my husband when he was in the military for 17 years. She ended up marrying that man too after she divorced my husband. His kids won't even give him the time of day. I think it is because of me and my daughter. You are right in not wanting to go with him to get the kids anymore. I kept telling my husband over the years that his kids have no respect and they just make excuses for not wanting to come around. He finally sees it now. It sounds to me like at least one of them is trying to split you and your husband up. I had the same thing here also. I would just tell your husband that until they give you resoect, then they get none back. I went through it and I will never put up with it ever again. Don't blame yourself at all. They are just trying to get their dad to be on their side and to not like you is what it is. Your husband will see it eventually and maybe he will take up for you on this. Maybe they will soon stop their lies when they see it isn't working.
